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So this guy did everything to get my attention. He was really sweet to me, he'd speak for me in class (i'm shy). Hed ignore hot girls around me. He'd get jealous and try to make me jealous. He'd stare into my eyes for no reason. He'd look me up and down from across the room. When he had to speak to me he stammered. (we never talked to each other.) This went on for a year, and he hasn't dated anyone. I was too shy to show interest or speak to him. When we finally talked at a friend's house he complimented my personality a lot and stared at me and smiled. He wouldn't let any guy near me. When i made fun of him (playfully, NOT mean) he seemed hurt. He listened to every word i said and tried to make the conversations as long as he could.

So since that one time we talked he has ignored me. He's going through a lot, his mom just broke up with her second husband (other than his biological father). He hasn't tried to talk to me (we're not in the same click). He flirts with other girls in front of me. This girl said he kissed a random girl for a dare 3 years ago and she was practically swooning because he was soo good. She also said he had a lot of girlfriends. I wouldn't consider her a reputitble source but still... I don't understand why or what i did.

My mom says straight hair is beautiful. And I've heard that it's the best hair texture to have out of all the hair textures in the world. ( what black people tell me) It's just overall better. ( according to black people) So when I was getting my perm I thought yeah I'm finally going to be beautiful. I'll be the girl who gets a ton of compliments on my hair. But when I went to school no one said anything. No one said I was pretty, or anything. Instead I was ignored/ laughed at. When I had straight hair no one said anything expect I was ugly.

So my perm grew out. And went back to nappy/ black hair. I got more compliments wearing my natural hair then wearing straight hair. Isn't that crazy? But I get more compliments when I wear curly weave. Yeah, my hair can curl naturally but I'm still trying to find out how to keep it in there.

Is straight hair still cool, hip in style? Or did I look bad in straight hair and just look better with curly weave/ wearing my natural hair? I thought that if I had straight hair I'd be pretty but people told me I looked bad I thought I was fitting the standard of what's hot. So I basically look better with my natural hair texture? :/

( I'm black by the way)

This is a long, complex story so bear with me! I need some help!
So last year this guy really was showing some interest in me. He was overly gentlemanly and flirty, would get jealous and tried to make me jealous. He'd lock eyes with me from across the room. One time when our eyes met he walked into a glass door. 😂I'm extremely shy so he'd speak for me in class. He'd be all confident until he'd get near me he'd stammer. We never talked but there was some serious chemistry. He'd ignore hot girls that were checking him out around me. (His friends would laugh about how he would approach girls when I wasn't there.)
This went on for a while. He wasn't dating anyone else, girls tried to hook him up with their friends but he wasn't interested. We finally talked and he complimented my personality a lot and kept staring and smiling at me. He was very sweet but wouldn't let any guys near me. His hands were sweating and he listened to every word I said. He was overly nice to my parents and wouldn't leave the room if I wasn't there.
I thought everything was perfect until my friend told me he had a lot of exes and he was an abdnormally good kisser (he kissed a girl for a dare 2 years ago). Is he a player? Or does he geniunely like me?

ALast year this guy told everyone hr liked me and asked my best friend a lot if I like him back and when she would say no he would say "I bet she does" every time I seen him hr asked me to get with him but u wasn't interested... this year hr came to my house with some lads they kept asking us to gw each other but I wouldn't answer and in the end he went really red and quite? We never shifted... he always asked me to go out to him and his friends and go town with him but when our friends came he ignored me... we were sending x's for a few days... but then we stopped completely... he's always bringing up a guy I talk to... he's not from our town let's just say he likes in roscommen... he always says stuff about him and tat hebwould beat him and stuff and he started a fight with me and the first thing he said was "you think ur unreal go off to ur rosscommn boys" my friends say he's jelouse and when people say it to him he just goes quite... he always asks about him as well and if I go Roscommon people always tell him?
We don't talk as much anymore... the other day I was in town and sat down on the bench and he was the other side of it with some lads and girls when I looked over he looked at me got up away form the lads and sat next to this girl... he kept looking over at me after awhile he got up and walked off with her.. then walked back with her and looked at me... me andy friends hot up to leave and he followed us... he came over and stood beside me but talked to my friends... he wouldn't even look at me! I gave him some gum and he didn't even look at me he just put out his hand! When he walks by he looks at me and looks away then lookes back?
1. why does he do these thing?
Does he like me or not like me... I can't tell is he playing games?
One time he liked my status for a chat and when I texted him he never opened it then 10mins later unliked it then he snapped me and I snapped back and he never op