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Biologically men want to take lead and protect in a relationship. Not every dynamic is set out to be this way, but generally this is what biology brings us to. It makes us feel masculine when we provide and are needed, so I can understand that a women who's completely self-sufficient emotionally, and financially could make men feel insignificant.

But I believe the bigger problem with these self proclaimed independent women is they have this attitude that they don’t need any man. I’d personally like to be feel wanted in a relationship and I’d like to feel like a priority. Also a lot of these types of women are often offputting, because to get to these higher positions, they often have to take on traits of a man. I’m personally attracted to feminine women. Not hyper-aggressive and bitchy women who think that being rude is the only way to make it in the world.

I’ve always dated successful women. My two most serious relationships at least. One was a nurse and the other was an accountant. They were both feminine and didn’t have masculine personalities. They also didn’t sit on this throne screaming at the world that they’re independent lol. This is why it never bothered me.

I'm just sort of sick of seeing questions on here of women claiming that they are too intimidating to us because they make 60k a year lol. We aren't. We're just off-put by your lack of willingness to prioritize a relationship and your masculine personality. If anything, it would be nice to have a woman to be able to pay her own shit once in a while. I know I'd certainly appreciate that. So long story short, it's not your money or your job. It's you.