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I'm married, and so is the guy I'm seeing on the side. We both have kids, and our marriages are both on the rocks. The guy, whom I'll call Jim, worked with my husband, and one night we all decided to get together and double date at a bowling alley. His wife "Nina" and I didn't get along from the beginning. We were drinking rum before we left, and drank a lot of beer at the bowling alley. I went outside to smoke a cigarette, and when I came back in there was Jim by the door, and he gave me a hug. It was pretty innocent, and he told me I give the best hugs. I enjoyed it because, well, I was attracted to him. We all took a taxi back to my house, where we drank more and played cards. We all had fun, but the hug was still on my mind. After cards, they slept in my kids room because the kids weren't home and everyone was drunk, so they stayed. Needless to say, I got up in the middle of the night and found Jim and started making out with him in the hallway. Then we went into the living room and kissed for hours. No sex obvi bc our spouses were in other rooms. The whole week afterward we texted nonstop. He came back the following weekend, and we did it again, with my husband passed out in the other room. After that we have pretty much been inseparable.. this was 3 months ago. He quit his job and stopped talking to my husband entirely now. There is no sign that we ever talk to or see each other. We have fallen so madly and deeply in love with each other that it's scary. I can't go a moment without thinking about him or worrying about him. I mean, damn.. he quit his job for me!! I'm trying to move out in a month. I'm not going to move in with this guy, at least not for a long time.. I'm not leaving my husband for him, I'm leaving for me. It isn't fair to my husband either for me to be here. I'm just wondering if I should trust him. I really think I can, but the whole thing has got me in a tailspin like this is a bad way to start a relationship. I KNOW he loves me.. no question

Hey guys... I know this is quite full on but I can't talk to my friends about this and I need insight.
I have been married for 3 years and been with my husband since I was 15 (now 30).
He is a pretty big pot head and it causes a lot of problems in our relationship. He goes mental when he doesn't have it and it quite often scares me.. he always says he'll stop but I think that's just something he tells me when I'm not talking to him so I'll get over it. I never nag but I often tell him I just want to run away and not have to deal with this. Im highly sexual and it affects me so bad. He gets stoned and falls asleep every night and I end up having to satisfy myself all the time. I work with a lot of males and I'm attracted to one in particular and we've started chatting on Facebook and I know this is evil but I hid most evidence of me being married before I accepted his friend request. I don't think I'd cheat but I'm craving the attention! Im a good looking girl with a really laid back attitude and I feel my husband doesn't appreciate at all what he has.. should I stay or just be over and out?

I lifeguard over the summer, and I've met some real chill people from ages 15 to 22. This one guy that I became attracted to is 19 and I am 16. Any way I know he is attracted to me because he always making comments about my butt and always trying to talk to me and he always forgetting and asking me what is my age or forgetting what grade I am. Any the whole summer we've been flirting but he made it clear that he don't like dating younger girls and by the way in my state the age of consent is 16 i'm turning 17 in 3 months. by the way we've hanged out a couple of times but never alone... we smoked at his house with one of my friends and afterwards he invited us inside but my friend kept bothering me because she has to go... like wtf. Also at my job he compliments me on the way i dress and one time I wore this crop top with a lace back with no bra and i can feel his eyes zoomed on my nipples but i didn't wear that crop top for him, I just like to go no bra and i'm not a slut or anything. I only had 2 boyfriends in my whole life time and I feel like I am way to mature for high school boys. Like everyone at my job was shocked when they realized i was 16 they all thought i was like 18. by the way i feel sex should be after marriage. But do you think I have a chance next year. I really like him, he is like the most honest/chill guys i ever met. Also we still talk but not like friends or close friends. we just text every now and then because he once to be a weed dealer (PLEASE DONT JUDGE THAT) but he is really a nice guy and he wants me to spread his number around! (PLEASE LOOK PASS ALL THAT BS) But he is not a bad dude because there has been times where he has had my back at work where he could of gotten in big trouble but do you really think I have a shot?

well he is a classmate, a decade younger than me and I mentored him using social media site for the course we had together which he would have failed without it. last week he was frigidity, chose the farthest chair to sit in class from me and at end of the class comes and tells me he has something to confess and says he has been having this wet dream about me (making such confession while crying huge tears and shaking like crazy) . there has been no physical contact between us knowing he is the type who believes in absolute abstinence pre-marriage which I used to find commendable. beside the fact that I don't find him attractive neither physical nor in any other way and see him just as a classmate this confession has made it far too awkward for me to handle such relationship. on the other hand he has agreed to do anything to redeem the situation except 1. me ending it for good or 2. suggesting him having any form of sexual release to regain his peace of mind. i'm truly in a tight spot here and would immensely appreciate any solution to this problem. thank you guys.