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We had these really great, intelligent conversations online, and I realized that we had a lot in common. I know of him from school, but I never bothered to really get to know him. So the only time we talk is through Facebook, and we talk a lot, sometimes into the morning. Two nights ago, after some pretty intense flirting, we came to the conclusion (pretty much told the other) that we liked each other. He said that he wanted to have a relationship with me, and maybe we should go on a date. I told him that I wasn't sure and I said I really wanted to talk to him about it the next day. It was late and I had work in the morning. He seemed enthusiastic. But here's the thing- he has been blatantly avoiding me since! He gave me his number a long time ago but he doesn't have a phone. That means that the only way of contact I have with him is through stupid Facebook. It has been a few days, and I don't know what his problem is. We have been really honest with each other about everything, so why is he being so secretive and hurtful now? Is it something I've done? Did he only get me to open up emotionally so he could laugh at me behind my back? PLEASE HELP! :(

Here's the story:

I met this guy back in January 2009...we really liked each other a lot & we were talking everyday- we got to know each other pretty well I would say. Then on June the 1st he says he lost interest: It's because another girl ran after him. Then he cut me off completely and he was ignoring me. Then I got very angry & frustrated because I really like this guy a lot & the girl that chased after him is not all that attractive - I'm WAY BETTER than her!

I didn't know hot to get through to him because he was ignoring - he cut me off August 2009. So then in November 2009 I opened up a fake Facebook account & msn ID and I spoke to him. He was saying that he's single and that his last ex who was black cheated on him (with a guys who's just a friend & who doesn't commit to anyone) and then he was talking about me that I'm "Sincere". He didn't know it was me but then in the end he found out and he called me a liar/ said that he hates me...

We are now back in contact since Feb 2010. He apologized to me & when he saw me he was asking me: "well don't I get a hug?" Then we hugged and kissed. When I asked him about her again in person, he was saying: c'mon black not my type- she didn't cheat I just got sick of her...

Do you think he's still with her? or do you think they ended? Ever since he got with her he removed his relationship status on Facebook and its blank and his looking for says friendship not friendship and dating..is he still with her? Why dint he change his relationship status? why did he eave it blank and not write single? Is he just looking for what he wants in a relationship & is only looking for friendship for now?