Search Results: questions i could ask my boyfriend

- She’s very quick at replying to texts. Rarely texts first though. And she often replies with multiple long messages even if he only sends a small message with no question in. Sometimes the long multiple messages can follow an hour or 2 after she reads them.
- She goes to every group event he suggests. she puts it straight in her diary
- If he doesn’t talk to her first, she’ll approach him
- Sometimes she's awkward around him when talking to him, other times very relaxed and laughing a lot (she could be like this with everyone although she does tend to pay attention to him more but that could just be a coincident)
- She was once being chased by another persistent guy. She used the friend to get away from the persistent guy. Later when the friend left them to it, she somehow got away from the persistent guy and chased after the friend.
- She often has the geekiest guys surrounding and orbiting her.
- She was once talking with the friend about how they both enjoy travel and she mentioned it didn’t work with her ex as he didn’t like travel. She also mentioned how many people ask where her boyfriend is when travelling and she just says “I’m just travelling.”
- at a group birthday dinner once, others told him to sit in the middle next to the other birthday boy. She was already sat there although she offered to move so the guys friends partner can sit next to him. And so she moved.
- She’ll still go off and talk to others after spending a long Time talking to him.

So I suspect a friend (female) of mine is interested in another (male) friend of mine. She has a a boyfriend (of 7yrs) and they live together. She was previously interested in him before she got her boyfriend and has flirted with him at parties etc over the years (but nothing serious).

Now there's been a couple of trips (cabin) with the closest friends over the last year that was planned but never happened. Previously to these two trips the girl had not been interested in joining. I asked her this time beforehand and she made all kinds of excuses and was clearly not interested. Then a day later I told her that I and the boy (she might be interested in) had talked about the sleeping arrangements and that they were decided and asked again if she wanted to join. She and him were to share a room and bed alone (this wasn't a set up). Then all of a sudden she changed her tone becoming less dismissive and using laughing emojis a lot.

She then asked if all the boys (there were 2 others) were certain to join and I said yes. I asked if she was ok with these arrangements and said "yeah sure as long as he doesn't snore (and plenty of laughing emojis joking it away)". She went from not keen to super keen. I then asked if she wanted her boyfriend to join and then she said he couldn't and said what a weird thing to ask (using laughing emojis nervously). We were supposed to be 6, and then I said that two of them were uncertain, and she asked what would happen if they didn't join. I said i dunno and asked her opinion. She then said "I can join you three (all boys) if you dont mind? *laughing emojis*.

Later this year there was another trip, and similarly she was not so keen, but I said we could just have the same sleeping arrangements as earlier and she became giddy and wanted to join even tho we would just be the four of us again. She then noted that it was NOT because of who were joining..

The trips didn't happen after all, but the question is what do you think she wants and what would've happened?