Search Results: scared of getting close

Will I scare him off if I tell him I'm a virgin?

I'm 22 and he's 26-turning 27 and we were getting to know each other, he asked me "when was my last relationship" and I don't want to tell him I've never had a bf/sex. I'm actually really pretty/have my own place/study...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Going out with the guy I like. do I have to be the one to make a move?

So im finally going to hang out with the guy i like outside of work. we hung out once when we first started talking but thats it. this time we are going out to a bar, but with a group of friends. My friends have been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What can I say or do that will prevent me from losing him?

Basically there's a guy I like at school, and we met a month and a half ago. He was very flirty and seemed interested from the very beginning. We told eachother we were attractive, we went on a date, we tried to plan...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

51yr woman 24yr man- can I get things back? what is it that he is feeling?

Im a 51yr old, married woman- met this 24 yr man, i felt a motherly love, he is an orphan-We live in different cities. he asked me to make love (fuck obviously) I said no. eventually we did, months later i was caressing...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Guy friend is a giant pain, so confused?

I met this guy when we were about 11 or 12 and we've been close friends since. Long story short he liked me when we met and I liked him too but I rejected him because I was scared of how much I liked him and this kind of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I help my guy friend?

So I have a guy friend with whom I talk every single day for the past year. I always thought something will happen between us two but we just kept texting and talking about school when we go for coffee. So I was sick of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

20 Weird Phobias You Might Have

Halloween is coming up soon, so I thought I would write a take on phobias. A phobia is fear of something. With the exception of a couple people, we all are scared of at least one thing. Some of us, whether it be from a...

RainbowFanGirl

Editor Age: 27

20 26 See More

Girl's Behavior

My heart feels completely lost?

After almost getting killed, five of my closest friends become drug addicts, and being in an abusive traumatic relationship for years where he was also an addict, I've become used to unhappiness and worry. I'm insecure,...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Family & Friends

Girls, How to recover from loosing a Friend, not returing messages?

Short story. A girl who I though was a close friend has apparantly stopped texting I have talked to other girls that are friends who suggest giving her space as I may have been smoothing her. To be fair we went to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Will my boyfriend come back to me after taking a break?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for technically 6 months but have been seeing eachother for about 8. I am his longest relationship so far, his only other one being a 5month one when he was in 10th grade. He is 21...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he ghosting me or is he just taking space I said I would give?

I dated this guy for a couple of months and we hit a bit of turbulence. We started seeing each other too much, he thought I wanted a serious relationship so tried to give me the im not ready for something serious talk. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I'm getting called the football slut?

I'm the football team manager because I understand football. The coach and the team has me join when we have extra time and are just playing a quick, fun game. I'm close to the guys and they're great to me. In the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do I handle this Facebook sitatuation? I'm stumped so any opinions are greatly appreciated?

I'm planning on getting rid of my Facebook account. I have close to 100 friends on there, and the main reason I get on fb is to chat with my crush. My crush knows I like him, but we can't date at the moment because of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What to do about overbearing friends?

So this guy that I have been getting close to for these past couple months has this friend, that is a girl, who is completely overbearing. They have been really close friends for awhile now and she is like in love with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is he trying to distance me from him?

This guy and I talk online daily for the past year. He is aware of how I feel and from what I understand he feels similarly. He feels emotionally closed off from his past relationship, and is worried about being able to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

100% Miserable. I can't get back up this time. It hurt's too much. I'm stuck?

He broke up with me because of fights 3 months ago. Since then we didn't talk for a month. Then we came back to grad school and started hanging out again. He wanted to take things slow then he said he needed to take a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Girls, Get a Girl to Notice Me?

Yesterday was a bad day because my crush not only ignored me all day, but paid all her attention to these guys Vic and Jake. Some of the instances were Jake took her to the arcade and won her a stuffed animal out of a...

WildMoos

Xper 4 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

How can I get her to talk to me again? (Long story with close friend)?

So this is quite a difficult place to be in; I've been friends with her for about two years but I was involved in a car accident which nearly took my life around mid July, she texted me when I came to and offered support,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Slept together first time we met?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I met a guy from my area online week before last week. Monday we hung out in his dorm watched a movie talked a little then we just made out. I was on an awkward angle so I ended up

I met a guy from my area online week before last week. Monday we hung out in his dorm watched a movie talked a little then we just made out. I was on an awkward angle so I ended up just straddling him. Which I think sent the wrong message. Things got really heated and clothing started to come off. Before long he was taking my underwear off and pulling his down. I was kinda shocked at his confidence as this was his first time getting even remotely this close to sex. I wanted to and we did.

The next day we hung out and did it again. But this time I felt bad, guilty even.. I felt like I was being used for sex. He walked me to course which was making me worry more because he wasn't trying to hold my hand. At times it must've seemed like we were complete strangers.

I talked to him about everything and how I was feeling and how him asking if we were a thing made me feel like shit. He told me how he didn't want to scare me away and that we can take a break from sex go on a real date.
Which is What we did yesterday. He took me on a picnic at the botanic gardens. It was very cute. (By this time we had decided that not having sex was going to be impossible) so we went back to his after we had stuffed our faces and began making out. We had sex twice because we said we wanted it to be a romantic evening but the first time we got caught up in the heat of the moment and went quite rough. But the second time was very romantic.

We talked and sung and had a tickle fight after. (Well he tickled me) and I stole one of his shirts. He held my hand and kissed me in public even though he's not keen on pda.
I still feel wrong about the sex because of the fact I don't love him. But I know one day when I do it will make the sex that much better.

Plus keeping in mind he was a virgin before meeting me, but he has gotten me the closest to climaxing than my previous partner. Plus now that is all he wants out of sex for me to enjoy it and get off from it.

Giving the circumstances do you think it'll last?

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Relationships

Hannah's story: A girl with mental health & trauma issues and our relationship

I have mentioned Hannah in a fair few of my comment responses but Hannah's life has not been easy and with her permission I am going to try and tell her story the best I can. I orignally met Hannah in 2001 via her 23 year...

Kerbie

Xper 7 Age: 42

1 1 See More