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@ThatDude29 Its a special kind of allure that just captivates. It's very powerful. When a women uses her femininity in the right way she has at her command literally a generation of men. And i don't mean that hyperbolically. And i'm not talking about sexual.

@backdoorman We men are irresistibly attracted to femininity, a fact that seems lost on many of today's women, who it seems have been led to believe femininity = weakness. Trust me when I say that as long as there are straight men in this world, femininity will be power, not weakness.

@hellionthesagereborn I feel like in any other era this question would have a very obvious answer. I don't need a woman to be strong because no matter how strong she will never be as strong as myself. I don't need a woman who acts like a man because I am a man. She can however offer something I can never have which is femininity. She can be nurturing in a way that I cannot provide for myself, she can instill in me a sense of purpose. Men are built to provide and protect women and family. This gives them a reason to strive and a reason to work hard because they have someone to make these sacrifices for. If she chooses the man she is saying he is important enough that she wants and that she trusts in his value enough that she thinks he will pass on the best of himself to her offspring (that's a very big deal). So yes femininity is desired, doesn't mean she can't like masculine things, but it does mean that she will have a certain outlook and a certain behavior that can only be done by women.

@Average_but_not_Joe I've known people who believe being feminine means showing off assets to get attention and girly-girl means doing makeup and going to parties. I am looking for someone that'll have my back when I need it, a partner.

I've moved into a new apartment complex, and I don't hang out much with my old, tight-knit group of friends. We've all known each other since junior high, and I want to stay friends, but they seem less interested. We had a sexual arrangement that was really nice, but I feel awkward approaching them about doing anything (I'm kind of a nympho). I've been hanging around another group, but they aren't as cool and don't have any sexual things.
Should I try to go back? Come into the new group? And where should I find sexual satisfaction?

"A hobby is an activity, interest, enthusiasm, or pastime that is undertaken for pleasure or relaxation."
For the sake of this poll, sexual stuff (by yourself or with a partner) is not included.

So, some context. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 3 years. We moved to another state together, and we had been living together for the last year. There were a lot of things coming in between our relationship, like how we were living with my mom (awk, I know, things were complicated and we couldn't afford to live on our own yet), we didn't have the same days off so we hardly saw each other, etc. It got to the point where he only wanted me around for sex in exchange for him doing things for me like cooking dinner or driving me to work which was down the street. It didn't feel like we were a couple anymore.

About a month ago, my coworker was worried about my well-being and expressed how he always thought I was pretty and how he wanted the best for me, and it was nice hearing that from somebody at the time. I ended up inviting him over to the house while my boyfriend was at work and we did sexual things. My boyfriend ended up finding out what happened after looking through my phone and I was trying to explain why I felt the need to do that, but he wasn't believing me. I broke his trust. I owned up to what I did but he was too hurt and has been hurting ever since and it kills me. I've started therapy and got an STD test which came back negative, and I'm working on myself to become a better person, but I feel like it's too late since he already closed his heart off to me.

TLDR: I cheated with my boyfriend of 3 years and he doesn't trust me and doesn't want to take me back. I'm having trouble moving on because he was my everything.

What should I do? Should I keep trying to fix our relationship? How can I prove to him that I've changed and I won't ever do what I did to him again after going through the pain of losing him? How can I get him to trust me again? If you've been cheated on, did you work things out with your partner? I still feel like a shitty human being, but I'm trying to fix what I did wrong.. any help or advice would be appreciated. :(