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My friends with benefits keeps contacting me. Sending me Christmas wishes through his friends and cousins telling them to ask me to unblock him. I blocked his ass because this nigga has a girlfriend but he told me :'I'm not in love with her. I want her to break up with me. I am in love with you. Honestly the love is dead there. And we are just in it for our son.' They have a son together. And this guy basically told everyone his in love with me. We had a pretty good friends with benefits situation. We didn't have sex much. Sometimes he would just come see me even when my lady flow is in Town. He bought me a gift for my bday and a chocolate when i was on my period as he asked me what do you crave when you on your period but that just happened recently he never done it in the beginning this was before I got a text from her number like just a few weeks before.

Like I trusted this guy so much I confided in him and he was very supportive of me and my business. He would buy things from me to show his support. Liked him.
After the text I got from his girlfriend wishing me so bad on my love life and that she will fight me and she claimed she's his girlfriend And was so rude but I wasn't rude back I just told her to go off on him cause i didn't know his an asshole for lying and cheating and was it really my fault that he cheated on her his the one who lied to us both. So I decided I'm going to leave this toxic situation and I blocked him everywhere his calls, sms's and whatsapp. So now two of his cousins sent me texts like he asked i must unblock him and they not together anymore and his friend texts me too. He wished me happy holidays for the season and that he loves me even though he said that with his clothes on too and during sex. He calls frequently but the calls get blocked automatically.

I don't wanna talk to him but all I can think of is he wants to use me for sex again. And im not going back. Im keeping him blocker but he just can't leave me alone.

My best friend pat.
When his girlfriend and him were together we didn't do nothing together and we talk from time to time.. but nothing more then that. Plus I had a boyfriend at the time

But in oct his girlfriend didn't want to work out the relationship. . and that same day I wanted to work it out with my boyfriend but he ended it that day.

That same day me and pat both admitted our feelings for each other
Etc
Well he told his cousin that he will give us a chance but he needs to get away from the city we r living in rn. Because all they do is gossip and shit like that


Well.. then.. the day after I spent the night. Literally. He and his ex were back together.. and he fucking snap at me saying like how he and his girl were together etc. I'm just like ok whatever
And he said in a message he didn't even like me. And he wants to be with her and her only.

But it was like a wk after they got back together. He started to talk to me again etc

pat. literally just confused the shit out of me.

He and his cousin were talking about how the relationship should be like trust honesty communication. . no jealousy etc and he was eyeing at me the whole time.

And then he touched my arm not once not twice but three times

And then he touched my finger not once but twice

And then I touched his finger by a mistake. ..


And he opened the door for me not twice but 3 times.


And now he told his so called girlfriend he loved her.. but they hardly talk on the phone they text more.. then talk and then he says he is married to her. And wants to have kids with her.. I mean hell she not even there to even help him him out nor there for his baptism.

But a few years ago she was there for his mom funeral and they went to school together. And her mom is pressuring him to get back together ( and now they r back together.. ) but fuck his FB and her fb says they are single.


What was his actions telling me? .
My best friend thinks pat likes me.

But what do u think?

So my boyfriend has been my best friend for 5 years. In high school we dated for about 2 years. Then we broke up for 2 years. Now we've been dating for almost a year again. Best friends through it all, and friends with benefits for a while.

But I just found out I'm high school he cheated on me for a few months before breaking up with me. And he then basically dated the girl for that summer when we were broken up. They were just talking, hanging out, and kissing on the cheek. This girl became my friend once we broke up and was like the main one I leaned on and who supported me through the break up, me never knowing. I suspected he was with another girl but he would never tell me who. After all this time I just found out this month, and we talked through it and everything. I can forgive them, but I don't know if I can get over it and forget it. It sucks bc this relationship we've had now has been amazing, much better than when we were young and dumb, we've been really happy and healthy. I don't want to give that up for something that happened a long time ago, but I can't trust him now (i already have trust issues from childhood trauma!) And i don't want to be that toxic girlfriend who always goes through his phone, i hate that. But that's how I found out, because I suspected it still and it still hurt not knowing and he let me go through his phone so I found out. But since he lied to me for so long it just makes me sick to think it barely affects him now and he never would've told me. Also back then, they broke it off bc he never stopped loving me and realized he never liked her like that he'd just think of me, and he broke his heart talking to other guys. So I don't know. What would you do in my situation?