So first I was talking to this guy he was incredibly handsome and funny and sweet or so I thought we went on a couple dates and learned he was a player in the past but I “made him want to change his ways” one night we were on a date we drove up and looked at the sunset and held each-other it was perfect that night he took me home and I asked him if I was the only girl he was talking to and he literally didn’t answer so He gets a call from his friend and while talking he goes “I’m with my girl rn” so he hung up and I was like “so I’m your girl now” and he goes “what did I just say” and I was like “you just said I’m your girl” and he goes “okay then” and then kissed me. The relationship I had before him was extremely traumatic for me and I told him everything and that I needed someone who I could trust. After that night he literally became so distant saying that he wasn’t the type of person who could be exclusive and then ghosted me with 0 explanation I was so angry and devastated because why would you waste my time and make me catch feelings if you were just going to leave. Cut to now... he has a girlfriend whom he seems to be serious about and now I feel like I wasn’t good enough and I don’t even know why. Why do guys think this is okay to do. They just don’t care how we feel.
Guys ghosting you and leaving after you have them your all?
