Is using and treating people poorly for any reason (without remorse) traits of narcissists and sociopaths?

[SarahS98]

There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.

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9 mo

I'm already noticing total lack of empathy on those examples.

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9 mo

Leading people on and making them have hopes... only to just use them seems cruel, evil to me.

[mandyfire98]

It's absolutely a personality disorder involved. It's the same mentality incels have towards women. Seeing us as objects and having no empathy or sympathy at all. Just things to be used in their eyes.

Most of it is guys not being able to get sex because they're fucked in the head so they lash out on the internet about how cruel and bad women are because we won't give them any sex but they don't get sex because they are misogynists and hateful and fucked in the head.

It's not a chicken or egg thing we know the issue that came first and it's how these men think and behave that makes women reject them.

[SarahS98]

The 2nd paragraph would already be an example of entitlement and self-centered, which is what a narcissist would be like. Even if the man is all romantic and sweet, he isn't entitled for sex. No one is.
Just the very fact that he's being sweet to get sex and not because it's his real personality, that already isn't a genuine good person.

[mandyfire98]

If a guy is only viewing you as an outlet for his orgasms then he has no empathy or sympathy. He's probably narcissistic or a sociopath.

[Anonymous]

100% of people do this. Doesn't mean they have mental issues in the way you think. Just means they are in victim mentality.

[SarahS98]

Not everyone is a shitty human. It's you either have basic empathy or you don't.

[Billlewis]

I don't know what the correct term for that is, but I always seek out women who fit this description.

[SarahS98]

The bad part is when those women are actually looking for love and the guy uses them for money (or if she's wealthy for both sex and money) and destroys the little remaining hope they had. That already is a total disregard for a human, a total lack of basic empathy.

If the woman is just into casual sex and doesn't mind, fine. What is bad is leading people on, lying to them about your intentions, using them and discarding them like trash.. and enjoying doing that. That is cruel.

[SarahS98]

**The bad part is when those women are actually looking for love and the guy uses them for sex

[Staximus]

Only scum bags say shit like that. What can you do about it besides ignore them? Find them and tattoo "scum bag" on their forehead?

[SarahS98]

It's sad that there are real shitty people like that using people and damaging that person's last hopes, whatever remaining self-esteem they had left.

[Anonymous]

I was caught in a situation with either false hope or no hope at all it hurt either way

[SarahS98]

I hate users of both genders.

[Alex8736]

Absolutely 💯

[SarahS98]

It's a sad world indeed. For far, these are the traits I'm finding in those examples:
- Lack of basic empathy, check
- Disregard towards a human's feelings, check
- Entitlement, check
- Sense of self-important and arrogance, check
- Power and control, check

Yup that's an cruel, evil person.

[Alex8736]

Won't give you any space ☒

[Alex8736]

Making unfounded accusations ☒

[SarahS98]

I'm just going base on that poster saying that it's fun when women over age 30 get pumped and dumped. That poster found it funny using people without any empathy.