First of all... dont give on life... its just one life you get... you make good choices and make it beautiful... everyone has their ups and down dear. You are into him, you love him and had sex got emotionally dependent and you tried your best dear! You won't ever have guilt that you didn't tried your best. Now yr boyfriend claims to love you unconditionally which i doubt because he is setting up rules for you , abuses you and does all sorts of things... he is definitely hit by his men side egoism thats why he is trying to hurt you... as you are not respknding he egosim is getting mainstream... i suggest you share this with someone incase he goes too far... I suggest be with yr family and close friends,... and dont think too much about what he said... it does'nt matter... he is losing one faithfull person it is his loss... and you are losing one negative person its yr gain... be with the people you accept you, love you, car about you, respects you and trusts you... even if it is one person its okay... all you need is one who will stick with you lifetime... rather than having many people showing their backs at difficult times.
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Actions speak louder then words. It's not a great sign when your boyfriend's behavior can best be described by terms in psychology which describe people with personality disorders.
He says he loves you unconditionally- that's a lie. True unconditional love means you love a person despite receiving nothing in return.
He says you abuse him- gaslighting.
He's aggressive, angry, and harasses you.
I would block him on the phone and never talk to him again. Whether he truly lacks empathy and has a personality disorder or he's a mean unpleasant person you're better off breaking it off entirely.
He doesn’t have the right to treat you like crap, trust me, I was abused too, and I’ve been told to kill mussels too. I’ve tried it but I just couldn’t do it, there are a lot of people on here who’ll give you amazing answers, and will help you, and they might even want to be your friend. I’ve met great people on here, one amazing guy in fact (not gonna say). Just forget about him, and block every number he uses, or better yet, get a new cell phone number.
You need to get a restraining order against him in court, or file a complaint against him for abuse.
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Are you kidding me? A girl told me to kill myself and I actually tried, shot myself in the neck with a compressed co2 gun, I have 8 copper bbs stuck in my neck and I’m glad I missed the artery. Tell this fuck bitch gayboy to leave you alone and get someone to fuck him up. Seriously dude needs to get jumped.
That's pure harassment. If you truly care for someone you wouldn't do say or think anything that could hurt them. Your should be able to talk things out. At this point I would just block all the number that send any harassing texts or calls, if his friends are letting him use their phones for that then you don't need them in your life either.
take a hockey stick and go near him and tell him, some part of you lives inside him, and when he said "Go ahead and just kill myself" i have decided to begin with killing that part of me that lives inside you, and run towards him with a hockey stick and make him run around the place locality of his house...
Ok young lady I been there I have PTSD plus bipolar I think you need to not be with a bully clearly he's one and if you hurt your self you give into his crap stop live your life
and I tought he had the same illness as you.
well for my part I think you should ditch dating completely for some years. you need to have more time for yourself, knowing who you are, what you want for yourself and setting your ultimatum redline.He knows he was wrong. Don't go back. Make him sweat it out. Maybe take some time to do you.
He's a dick. Simple as that. Try to get a restraining order.
Easy, he's a cunt. You should just hang around your friends for a little bit until he cooks down.
Text him saying busy sucking cock.
He's a bitch.
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