So for some context, I was dating this guy for 3 months. For about a month and a half he was full on, I was the greatest ever, he was telling everyone about me and planning things to go out, holidays etc. he wanted us to only see eachother, didn’t like other guys around me.
then suddenly he started going hot and cold, ignoring messages, not calling or seeing me, blaming work and saying he was busy / his business had picked up. Being a bit cold around me. Saying things and not doing them. We spoke about it and he agreed to make effort, then got in a mood after the conversation and ignored me for days before we reconciled and he told me he really liked me and wanted to keep seeing me and was only seeing me
he then started making effort for a few weeks, contacting daily, being full on, planning dates and holidays. Before going cold again and eventually leaving my messages on unread and ignoring my calls.
i was mortified and sad. Not only had I been ghosted but to be actively ignoring me. What had I done to get this. He was still viewing my Insta stories for a bit then stopped but I have since blocked/deleted
anyway much to my sadness we have mutual friends (who were also shocked at his behaviour) and there is an event soon where I’m going to see him. I feel embarrassed and angry at how he has left things knowing that we will cross paths again at various points i future!!
how do I deal with this? I have the worst anxiety over it so advice would help please
