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Friends with benefits for 1 year and a few months. Last time I saw this guy was when we hooked in Mid April. We never really hung out or communicate properly we was just in it to have fun. Although I fell for him and ended things as said in my previous post. I just wanted to know why would he have asked to take a selfie with me? I'm just wondering off as I scrolled through my phone right now to find the pictures we took and it just reminded me of him.
I mean we never took selfies before. We never really talked or had a conversation before.
What was crazy was I wasn't even dressed I had on a sweatpants, long sleeve shirt and some bed time slippers and he came looking all fresh. So when we done hooked up he stayed a little and asked me what did I do all day? Him Trying to start a conversation. And he just grabbed my face and cupped my face and kissed me. My eyes was open and he was like :'You should close your eyes when we kiss!' so he was like :'Arent we gonna take a selfie of us' So I was like why this behaviour? We just basically just having fun which is sex? So we took the photo and I was like but I don't even look right and he was like soo it's just a photo. Lol and then when he left and he always does this he said :'Bye' and always lean in for a kiss. So then he left.

I think it was the next morning when he texted me to ask me to send him the selfies that we took but he said :'Please send that photos of us. I will delete it again if you want me to' so I was like okay.

I sent it and I don't know what he did with it and why his behaviour was like this. Why was he like this. ?

I saw this guy for a 1 year and a few months. It was really just an agreement between us two to hook up because we were so attracted towards each other. He is a super hot and I'm pretty sure he found me attractive too. So in this year on Valentine's day he confessed how he feels about me and generally just stated that he feels like we grew super close and that i have become best friend and that he doesn't wanna lose me and he always tells me how he adores me and appreciate my friendship. So I never really thought I would fall inlove with him but after he confessed I really didn't know that I would fall for him but I kept things light as usual. He texts me every single day to ask what I'm doing , how was my day and we would really have deep conversations and would chat about anything. Recently his Granma passed away and he texted me telling and told me how he misses her and when the funeral was and all that. I just showed my sympathy and condolencences to him he says that we should be each other's calmness and speak to each other whenever we feeling down and be positive towards each other. I still stayed inc with him because I was trying to end this thing because I felt way more for him and I know we could never be something more. I actually generally feel for this guy and I did tell him that I can't see him anymore because this isn't fun anymore. So I decided to end things last night through text and all he could tell me was that he apologized for how things worked out. He told me that i should always remember that he will always care for me and I'll always be in his thoughts and so I told him to block me and he did. He also states that he loves me and I should be careful out here. I was really crying my eyes out last night because I know I won't be seeing him anymore, I mean I could anytime if I wanted to but I refuse to go back cause I'm fed up of this friends with benefits.

So this guy and I matched on tinder about 2 years back. Initially we used to text each other for hours before meeting. And he made it seem like he liked me although none of us actually confessed, and at that time i had just gotten out of a relationship so I liked talking to him and found him quiet cool and developed a crush on him. Then once he told me he doesn't wanna hurt me. So I was wondering why he said that. Then I saw that he's talking to another girl (who he later told me was his high school bff). I stalked her and didn't find her that attractive so i thought she's probably just a friend. Then the next year we weren't in touch for a very long time and I got over him because another guy came into my life. I made a fake id to stalk him on insta and saw that he's made a birthday post with a cute caption with that other girl. I wasn't jealous because I already had someone then. A few months later he texted me and wanted to finally meet me, so we met and drank at a bar and he wanted to hook up with me but i ignored his advances cause i was kind of seeing someone already. Then we met again and went for a movie and i just kept talking about this other guy who I like and asked him if he likes anyone and he said "i'm on a break with a girl" and he probably didn't like that I kept mentioning that other guy. Anyway after that day we never even spoke once and I saw that he posted another birthday post with that girl on her birthday. I honestly don't care now at all but I have a strong feeling that they were dating when we started talking, and he was probably trying to double date me with her.