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I went out with my boyfriend for around a year and a half.
We went shopping the other day and there were these sunglasses he wanted to buy but didn't.
he's 27 with a good job but pretty stingy on spending money on himself.
it's his bday and our year and a half anniversary (a day before his bday) so I bought him it and hid it in his apartment cause i won't be in the same state as him on his bday.

im 22 and a student but am not tight on money. I usually dont spend too much money on gifts but I can't take him out and spend time with him on his bday plus it's a gift for both his bday and anniversary so I thought it was a good idea to get him those sunglasses. they were $180.

Do you think he would feel uncomfortable with this? or do you think it would make his day?

I've been together with my boyfriend for 2 years. I knew he was best friends with his ex. They dated around 2 months when they first met. Since that happened like 10 years ago, I didn't really pay attention to it. Up until over the course of 2 years, she was showing a lot of fishy signs and red flags here and there. I don't want to go too detailed but, it's obvious that she still has feelings for him.

I trust my boyfriend and it's not about him. It's clear for me to see that he doesn't have feelings for her. He doesn't find her attractive anymore & doesn't care about her feelings. Couple of his exes told him the same thing. She still has feelings for him. He just doesn't care if she has feelings for him because she's getting nothing out of it. He thought it was okay to keep her around just because of that. Since, they've known each other for 10 years, it is a long friendship.

I had a talk with my boyfriend about this situation. Problem, she asks him out "alone" a lot. He would go if he's bored. That makes me really uncomfortable since he's hanging out with this girl that has feelings for him. And they had history! She doesn't like me because of that. If that was me, he said he would be questioning a lot & won't be very happy about it. He would want me to cut him out. We concluded to cut her out. If they keep in contact, she would just cause issues. In other words, she has feelings for him, wants to hang out with my man alone, & diss me.

He doesn't care about her & completely fine cutting her out. He actually think he should because now that he think about it, she was a problem with all his past relationships. He said he was being oblivious but mainly, he doesn't care about her feelings/what she felt about him.

I do feel guilty because he is doing this for us. It's not in my nature to do something like that. He's known her for 10 years & that's a long time. But, I am very happy he made that decision. But I feel bad :(

I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We are common law. I knew that his best friend was a female and they had sex once but that was it. They've known each other for 8 years. I am not worried about my boyfriend. I know for a fact there is no attraction whatsoever anymore from him. He's been through engagement and other serious relationship before me. She is the issue. In the beginning of our relationship, she already made me feel like she doesn't want to know me. Flopping events and never comes out when we ask her. However, almost every weekend, she asks my boyfriend out alone. Whenever my boyfriend mention that I'm coming, she just DISAPPEAR until next week she tries again. When we met, she refused to add me on social media. I told my boyfriend that I trust him, but there are red flags popping out all over her face. Whenever they go out without me, it doesn't make me feel any good. Over the 2 years, I talked to him about it many times. I believe that he has spoke to her that she needs to include me in events as well. For maybe around a month, she was better. But that was it. Now, she basically just asks him out. If my boyfriend is bored, he goes out with her. I'm not that happy about it. Thank god, it doesn't happen often. My boyfriend is pretty annoyed by me talking about it again and again. He's being oblivious about everything. "One of my friend told me that I need to be straight up with him. Tell him that I trust him, but, the fact that she's making me FEEL something is VERY FISHY makes me really uncomfortable if you go out with her without me. I would feel so much better and comfortable if every time she ask you out, you bring me with you and we will go from there. Unless I feel all her fishiness is gone, I would feel really uncomfortable with her. She thinks that I just never said it right. My friend told me because I haven't, it makes him feel like I will get used it. Do you think this would work?