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I’ve always promised myself that I’ll never have kids. Or date someone with kids. My reason for that is because kids are rude, too much stress, and they have no respect. I can’t put up with that.

My current girlfriend at the moment has a 15 year old daughter. I never had intentions to date this woman. We started off as friends with benefits while she was going through s divorce. Later on we got so used to being around each other. Which eventually lead to a relationship. She’s a good girlfriend who does everything for me. She tells me that she’s in love with me and want to remarry me.

Even though she’s a good girlfriend I still don’t wanna be with a woman who has a kid. I’ve never met her daughter. From what it sounds like. It seems like her daughter is a handful. She had called me many times crying because of her daughter verbally abusing her. Which I know there is no way I’d put up with that shit.

I recently broke up with her and she had a breakdown. She lost a lot of weight. Stopped taking care of herself. The break up lead her to serious destruction. I felt bad for her because I care about her and hate seeing her like this. So were back together and she’s happy again.

I still haven’t met her daughter, but I also made it clear. If me and her daughter can’t get along then we have to split. I’m the type of guy who hates kids. I find it annoying how my sister always has to stop and compliment peoples babies. I honestly hate kids and don’t want them near me.

But I’m willing to wait until I meet this woman’s daughter, and make the decision on our relationship. Gag I need your advice. Should I stay and wait until I meet the daughter? Or just leave?

I feel that being sober makes dating much harder when you don't smoke, drink, do rails or pot or whatever cause so many people go to parties and bars and such and i think its boring sober plus i have social anxiety so i don't enjoy going there. I also find women aged 18-30 don't really find bald guys attractive so that's like a double whammy the only thing i can make sure is that im in good shape and stack my money but then they could be attracted just cause you got money so im not sure how you find someone real in this world not a clue. I got tinder i used to have a pic of me with abs and i would get matches like crazy, well i don't have abs anymore and can't figure out how to get a photo that isn't cropped to just show my face so i feel like im screwed here lol just moved here i know nobody im not sure how to meet people at this point maybe when i go swimming or volunteer or something I don't know. Had 2 friends with benefits in 2016/ up till about march of 2017 since then haven't been on a date and haven't been laid either, haven't had an actual serious girlfriend since 2015