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she's a really close friend, but I've only known her for a couple months. It was clear we both liked each other back in the summer, before we both went to college. she started dating some guy in October. I hadn't seen her in a while cause our schools are pretty far away, but we facetimed all the time (she would initiate it at least 50% of the time) and over Thanksgiving break i thought she was giving some signals that she is still into me, despite the boyfriend. So are these signs good indicators as to if she likes me or not? :

She smiles at me constantly, a full smile, that includes her eyes

She laughs and giggles at anythig I say

Talks to me the most out of a group

Always sits with me / next to me

Looks me in the eyes during conversation

Always has a good time when Im around

Makes an effort to talk to me and hang out with me

Playfully touches me (light punches - hand squeezes - etc.)

She touched my ass once just as I got up

Sent a heart in text after I asked if she wanted to hang

Used a lot of emojis / exclamation points in text

She always sits with me and though we stsrt out sitting a normal distance apart, she and I both kind of move closer until were touching each other and she's resting her legs on mine, sitting as close as possible, etc.

She also came alone to see me at my job and asked if I wanted to go buy clothes after I made a joke about not having any. She sent pics of us together to all of her friends (& her bf)

She talked less and less about her boyfriend the move we hung out over break

She has asked me stuff like “How do you not have a girlfriend”

She has said stuff like “Ill be your pretend girlfriend”

I really like her and I want nothing more than to be in a relationship with her, and Im sure there are some definite signs of interest here, but she has a boyfriend back in college, so what should I do?

(all these specific signals happened over the last week. Nevertheless, I've liked her since summer and Im positive she has feelings for me)

I’ve never been in a relationship and no girl has ever showed interest in me. I’m a really shy guy. This one girl for the past few months has kinda been flirty with me and then distant so I didn’t think anything of it. I honestly was just being myself most of the time but somehow she interpreted it as flirting, I mean I have flirted with her but she didn’t seem to return it so I backed off. Anyways, she asked to talk to me after work on Friday so I agreed to it but then I left early. So today she wanted to talk to me after work and I asked her about what and she said stuff but wouldn’t really say what. So I rolled with it. I actually distanced myself from her today on purpose. she straight out asked me if I’ve been flirting with her and I said no I’m just being myself and she’s like oh I thought you were and was wondering if you wanted to hang out and I said I’m not interested and I know your probably hurt that’s the last thing I want but yeah sorry. And she said oh ok. Her twitter is full of - “who cares about my feelings? This guy played me for months - leading me on, and tries to play me off like a fool. I have feelings you know. I don’t like being played. He’s probably thrilled with himself over the fact that I’m upset. It’s exactly what he wanted.” And my personal favorite straight to me - “hey jake sorry for putting you in an awkward situation tonight... I guess I thought you were flirting with me and kinda got feelings.. and I guess it’s probably my inner desire for wanting a boyfriend or something... anyways I guess that’s what I get for being stupid so yeah sorry” like how am I supposed to respond to that? I do feel bad and I honestly didn’t mean to say that. I do like her however I am super busy with school and barely have time to work. I honestly didn’t want to tell her that and I feel terrible. Now she’s tearing herself down.