Search Results: when you split from a girl

To be honest it can have different meanings:

- She really likes your company and wanted to contribute by reaching out her purse.
- The date was a disaster and she doesn't want to see you again
- It can be either one of them and so you're unsured

Yes, I've asked out two guys in the past. I wouldn't have mind paying for the whole date (I believe whoever asks on the first date pays, then the 2nd or more it's splitting) and it was really them that insisted on helping out.

Anyways I've done that once when I was asked out. For me it was really # 2. He had a disgusting table manner, eating as if he was in some type of competition, sauce dripping from his mouth and burped (didn't even say excuse me or covered his mouth) and even grosser: talking with his mouth full of food. On top that, talking about an ex girlfriend.

We split in May. He refused to even talk to me and to this day he still has no time for me. Talking to him is like drawing blood from a stone to be honest.

So yeah; he quite clearly hates me, right?

Yet the latest girl he seems to be him to has big dark eyes, dark hair and pale skin like me. Same height. Petite and slim. She also has a 6 year old kid with the same name that my ex and I wanted to call our first kid. She also happens to have the exact same job as me.

The only difference is that she's a few years older with tattoos and piercings. She also seems to be kinda similar in nature to me as well? But with a little more attitude about her. Only real difference is that I'd say she has a prettier face than me.

I just wonder though, why on earth would my ex go for someone similar to me... when he evidently hates me so much?