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This guy used to check me out a lot, try to make me jealous, etc. Yesterday he and I arrived at the same time. He went to get food and I knew he saw me but he ignored me. I walked up and said his name several times and he said hi. I asked him where everyone was and he didn’t reply. So I said “ok” and walked away. Later when we were eating lunch he brought it up and I said “I was asking you a question!” He said “ What? where was the food? It was right there.” I told him I didn’t ask that and he said “oh, I know you what you meant.” I was like wtf.

There's a guy in my workplace that I've been hanging out with. He told me that he likes me and yeah I can feel it because of his efforts and sweet words. He always visit me in my house after work and on his lunch break. Then one day he seems to be cold and not texting me and not visiting me again. I asked him why and he told me that he is just busy. We kept distance to each other for about 1 week. And then I texted him again asking him to hang out with me and my friends. He told me he's tired but he will try next time. While i'm working, one of our common friend told me the reason why he stopped hanging out with me, it's bcs he's living with a girl right now in his dorm. He went to my house that day without knowing that I already knew about him cheating on his GIRLFRIEND. I'm just pretending that i didn't know but the next day he went to hang out with me, i asked him and he said that the girl is just her room mate. and he's not dating that girl. And yeah I'm so stupid cos i believed that bullshit. On my last day of staying in that city, we spent all day together because thats the last time. :( he told me that he likes me but doesn't want to rush a relationship. And now i'm here in a different city, I checked his facebook and found out that he'a really in a relationship with his room mate. I know i don't have the right to act like this but he cheated on that girl and on me! He played with my feelings. Do you think I should confront him?

I've been chatting online with this extremely shy guy for 3 weeks now.
He only just seemed to open up, last Friday , through message. He never asked me questions, but his answers are long and seems pretty interested. But I didn't reply him since Friday night, and replied a day later, and now he's not replying for the whole day. He usually replies quickly, but he took an hour to write one message about, how i should come see him if i come to japan.

Anyways, I've been seriously thinking, and if he does reply, im gonna ask him to lunch next Friday . Should i do it?
Shy guys, what do u think about girls asking u out first?