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I am trying to write a research paper. My topic is how people of different races attract each other based on the ways they look, dress, and and act. My hypothesis is that certain actions, methods of attraction (seduction), and looks trigger an attraction in men or women of other races. If you do not mind helping, I would appreciate your opinion on the subject. If you choose to give your opinion, please be specific so I understand your stance.

"So you want to date and have a relationship ey? Well.. you need to attend the training classes and be educated before you get into this, then you can take the test and receive your license to date!"

I know it sounds ridiculous and a money maker for government ladies... lets be honest... it is a mess out there. Swingers, polymorph, FWB's, criminals, liars, narcissistcs, cheaters, traffickers. Guys who are already married. Ditto for guys... And where to find... sift through all the options to find someone who is compatible when you've got 10 dating apps, millions of candidates globally?
UGh!!! I give up...
So would you be willing to expend energy and some $ for dating certifications... licensed:) It would show this:

An authentic and verified profile... e. g. it's true to best ability of knowledge and that they have receied training in themselves, what they want, and dating and relationships. It's something vs nothing. No different than going to a doctor... you expect some degree of standard skills (and it's not a guarantee there either.

Included: Background check
Training in:
Creating profiles
Self evalaution, personalities, how attraction works
Roles in relationships
How to approach, converse, talk communicate with opposite sex
Sex in society - what is going on, knowing yourself
etc...

I'm not currently dating anyone. And many things would have to happen for that to change. There are smaller things like:

My Lifestyle - It's not (observably) destined for financial success, and I'm suffering from anxiety and other medical issues that further hinder my potential. Which of course could be overlooked or helped if I found someone in person that loves me no matter my social or financial status.

My Outcast Mindset - Built-up feelings that I'm not deserving of intimate love. Which could also be overlooked if I find someone in person that expresses that love exact for me.

Then there are big ones are:

My Selectivity - I'm picky as hell when it comes to physical attractiveness! But I'm not unrealistic. I'm just severely limited. But later down the line, what if I were to lose physical attraction to my partner? And what if I can't gain it back? All of those have happened through the years with old crushes I've had. And that kind of makes me not want to get into a relationship since physical attraction holds such a strong influence. But then again, I don't know if that will ever change.

My Views on Monogamy - I wouldn't have a problem staying physically committed if I were in a relationship with someone. That's easy. But mentally faithful? That's another story. I really like the idea of having one partner to be committed & intimate with forever. But I feel like that sounds better on paper. I don't see the gain worth the mental trauma that I'd cause someone by naively getting into a relationship with them when I don't have the core stuff for a successful relationship figured out. I'm not entirely sure, but I think I'd just want a really good friend for life. That way I'm able to (safely) be intimate with anyone I'm sexually attracted to with no strings attached and no feelings hurt.

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