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DISCLAIMER // NO OFFENSE INTENDED // NOT APPLICABLE TO ALL MGTOW
This is a question for philosophical speculation.

For those, who don't know what MGTOW is - It's an abbreviation of MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY, in short and simple terms, a global and collective community of only men, who (tick out any of these but a minimum of one)...
- Boycott marriage (I don't blame them to be honest) completely;
- Boycott long term romantic/sexual relationships with women;
- Boycott even friendships or interactions with women or minimize them to strictly business only;
- Got screwed over by the divorce court, got legally robbed, may have a children and ended up paying alimony and child support for their ex spouse and may have their properties and assets taken too.

As a result many MGTOW got hurt by some women and many have basically went rogue, turned into bitter misogynists, spread their "red pill, female nature etc..." propaganda on MGTOW (dot) COM, youtube, reddit and you can see quite some of them hating women and blaming women for basically all world problems.

I mean how is this supposed to help society or even you as a MGTOW? That's the equivalent of drinking and distributing the same poison and hoping, that women will start choking.

This makes me wonder whether an exceptional professional therapist can save some of those MGTOW or whether they got damaged beyond repair. Because there is such a thing out there like being sick but being in denial of acknowledging being sick.

I honestly don't think many MGTOW can be saved, although I got saved back in the beginning of 2016 😅

Without going into too much detail. This girl gave me the it's not me it's her speach after 5 dates and I was heartbroken. She said she liked me and no one treated her as nice as I have.
She had a few relationships go sour, and she had a period before she met me where she struggled with drugs like cocaine and stuff like that. She is also struggling with work, implying she got fired for the drugs, and is suspended for a week because if attitude.
She said she wanted to not date me or anyone else and find herself and just get her life together. She said I was an amazing person, and I'd make someone so happy, but it can't be her because if where she's at right now. I told her I understood, but I deeply cared about her. I said I hoped that when things change for her, that maybe we could try again, and I hoped she'd keep me in mind.
She said she would let me know, and that she just needed to get herself right first.

Is she being honest? Will she let me know if we can try again?

Extremely long story short. This girl gave me the it's not me it's her speach after 5 dates and I was heartbroken.
She had a few relationships go sour, and she had a period before she met me where she struggled with drugs and stuff like that. She is also struggling with work.
She said she wanted to not date and find herself and just get her life together. I told her I understood, but I deeply cared about her. I said I hoped that when things change for her, that maybe we could try again, and I hoped she'd keep me in mind.
She said she would let me know, and that she just needed to get herself right first.

Is she being honest? Will she let me know if we can try again?