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So they have been together for about 2 months. This man has been in and out of jail throughout his life and doesn't see any of his 3 kids. He is unemployed and doesn't have much going for him, but has some kind of disability benefit/welfare for a problem with his leg, which he is milking as I have seen him jump off the back of a truck no problem. Anyway, he gets income support from the government.

He also has a drinking problem and he is a lazy rat in my eyes. He buys my sister alcohol and has her drinking more now as well and he lured her in by showering her with gifts and meals, initially. She had not long come out of a bad relationship and went to him for comfort. But now all they do is drink together and sleep with each other. It's a toxic relationship, mostly due to the age gap, but also the arrangement and all the drinking, not to mention he can be very aggressive and violent, especially after a few drinks. I have seen him shout in her face and he has threatened to break my dad's legs because he opposed their hook ups/relationship.

I don't want this man to be with my sister, but at the same time I don't know whether to let them be and respect her decision to be with him. Thoughts?