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Thing is my hair is naturally wavy so, curly hair shouldn’t look so bad on me.

Maybe the Curls are too tight so do not suit. Or the hair is just straggly...

The pictures are not great. I’m sorry about that. It is grey Out so lighting is bad. Adding artificial light makes it blurry. So I can say it does look better irl. Significantly but not drastically.. Maybe about 20% better.

I have thus far shipped back:

Honey blond curly
Black curly
Straight turquoise ombré
Medium brown curly is pending, but it’s looking fairly certain.

Once again, please Do NOT be worried of hurting my feelings. I’m not posting for an ego boost. I want a realistic observation. Like what you would think but would not say if you saw me in public - good or bad. I can’t or won’t ask strangers so you are basically filing in for the silent people who would be walking by.

(Doesn’t matter and I feel dumb explaining but I’m doing it anyhow🤦‍♀️—but that bulge is not my stomach. The shorts are loose and they poof out a bit. They didn’t have my side in that color so I went up two sizes and I thought I could just put them in the dryer to make them fit. It works initially. but they get loose during the day. _Ok_no one cares. I’m neurotic I know 🤷‍♀️)

Thank you 🌺

Do you feel it is sexist/Marxist of men to pressure a woman into sharing personal images?
I haven’t gotten this so directly from women as I have men. In my personal experience, I have a lot of strangers ask me to send explicit media of myself to them.
I’m aware it is to get themselves off—although I don’t see how a random nude would even be attractive.
I feel that when they constantly pressure for this, despite my saying of no on multiple occasions, it is disrespectful and disgusting. I almost feel like it communicates that I owe that to them when they ignore my original answer.
Both women and men, what do you think of this? How are your experiences with this? Men, have you ever been sexually harassed by a woman online or in person?
Please share your personal stories and opinions. (Anonymous answers are turned on if you want your story anonymous.)

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