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A lot of people go online to flirt with other people or have 'hot chat' or whatever. It's all well and good if you're single (or in an open relationship - but that's another matter) but when you're in a monogamous committed relationship, to whatever extent, isn't it cheating?

I don't really know what I'd think if I found out my boyfriend was talking to other girls online. But I'm curious to know what you guys think. If you found out your SO was doing that, what would you think?

Okay so there are three boys which I have feelings for but which is better from the description in your point of view.

I am going to label them A, B and C, A and B are best friends so their stories link a lot. Also B's friend comes into the story a bit.

A)

Me and him used to be best friends, we spoke over MSN all the time and he came to stand at the benches with me and my friends. Occasionally, B would come too and it was very fun, they were both very funny. Me and A used to play games such as dirty 50q and I knew all about who he liked, I was fine with it and encouraged him to ask them out. He goes to this drama group with me but doesn't speak to me when we go there for some reason. Anyway, we were doing the December show and I developed some feelings for him, he fancied another girl though and I encouraged him even though it was paining me inside. He lost contact with her and then we got closer. He admitted he liked me over MSN and a few days after we went out. We hugged but never kissed because I wanted him to initiate it and apparently he was more confident in sex than kissing.. I went away for a week and returned and my best friend was bitching about him (she had never liked him) so my best friend and I had a fight but then he dumped me over MSN the following day. We wanted to be friends but he stopped hanging around with us. He went to do football instead. We didn't talk but a few weeks after he went online and admitted he still liked me but didn't want a relationship, he wanted sex. I let that last a week until I saw him flirting with a former crush and then I asked him to prove he wanted me and he didn't because he made excuses. We haven't spoke much more than five sentences since.

B)

I only really knew B at first because he was A's friend. He started going to the drama group but had to stop. He was so funny and there was something there. A few weeks later A said B liked me and said that we suit and pressured us to go out which we didn't because I was sure B didn't like me like that. Anyway B and I stayed friends but when A and I broke up he stopped hanging around for a while but we still talked whenever we could. B and I had to do something together at school today and we were talking again, he was so nice and his friend said he liked me which he didn't deny. B is really nice and funny and so I didn't mind and he says he is going to start drama again soon.

C)

C and I have been out before for less than a day, we've been becoming friends again now. We speak in class all the time and play footsies, apparently I flirt with him. I was starting to like him before I liked A again and when A and I broke up he was kind. I have asked him who he likes but he said he doesn't like personal questions. He is a good friend now and we talk a lot, he is flirty with a few people but me in particular.

Which do you prefer out of all these people who I have described?

Thanks!

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