Is she avoiding me or just busy?

[mlrock]

There's this girl that I met online a bunch of months back and we've discussed meeting in person and hopefully forming a relationship this summer. For a good amount of time, we flirted and talked a lot by text messaging and by voice. However, in the past several weeks, she has not been responding to many of my texts. I know that she has a lot of school work and says that she's very cramped with work. However, I would think that she would at least say she wouldn't talk. Furthermore, it appears that there's a guy who she's at least friends with, and I know that most of her friends are guys. However, the way she talks about him on Facebook seems very flirty. At the same time, however, her Facebook status says she is single, and she also seems to communicate with her guy friends in a flirty way. Do you think she's no longer interested in me, or do you think she's just so cramped with work/stressed out she doesn't have as much time to talk to me?

[utterlyconfused]

I think that if you can't get replies from her over and over again, then there is no way she is interested. If she were interested but couldn't reply to you because she was busy, she'd get in touch as soon as she was able and explain why she was so late to reply. She would be very aware of it, just like you probably would be if you were genuinely too busy to reply to her.

She may have just gone off the idea of meeting you. You may have waited too long to meet.

Sorry if that's not the answer you were looking for.

[MmaTender]

Sounds to me like she's not looking for someone serious, or if she is it's not you right now...

If your looking to get serious with someone she does not seem to be that type of girl right now and your wasting your time. If you just want her, then relax you'll get your turn lol (just going by how your describing things)

I'm curious if your not getting more caught up in the competition of courting her. It's hard to really notice but you might want to take note if you are or aren't

[Elcamino70]

Honestly, you met online. Youcant expect much from that.