Why is she acting like she is avoiding me or pretending i'm not there?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what is going on. She is acting overly quiet towards me for no reason. I really like her, but what is weird is I sit next to her and she ends up showing me her nice pen she has got. For some reason she gives me this small chat which she starts. Then she goes quiet like I don't exist. We've spoken before and I've only been nice to her, but I have noticed she will talk to others normally but not me.

[mlvrjohnconnor]

She is testing your neediness level. Both men and women want to secure the best options they can have, meanwhile see if there is any better options, this is especially true for young people.

They usually start it with being quiet or unresponsive. It is smart move because it is disrespectful enough to test your neediness, meanwhile they remain the plausible deniability in case you call them on what they have done.

When testers do this, they already have an assumption that the testees are needy and desperate.

Don’t let anyone be disrespectful to you.

[Asker]

Are you saying is this behaviour meaning she could be interested in me.

[mlvrjohnconnor]

This behavior means she was interested in you initially, but now she believes she is too good for you. And a girl won’t give you any chance if she thinks she is too good for you.

[Wise4myage]

Why don't you just ask her if she'd like to hang out.

[cryscrys1]

Your questions reminds me of these funny story a person is praying to god “ please god help me win the lottery” and the god replies “ you have to buy the lottery ticket first..”
I mean what are you expecting from her? If you want something you have to go after it..

[Katebfun]

Sounds like a game people Play. Blwoing hot and cold. Call her bluff and do the same to her. Act distant and detached. You'll find out sooner than later if you play the game back.

[Shayyyy1]

She likes u or she doesn't know how to talk to u.

[Asker]

There is something there. Cause she and I make eye contact when we walk past each other. Secondly I've noticed that she was sitting next to me and she was looking down at the direction of arms/ stomach area. I was thinking what was so interesting for her

[In_Trance]

she doesn't like you

[priyatusjj]

I love you