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I've been talking to this guy for 6 months, but friends with benefits for about 2 months. I sent the dreaded triple text and still no response (one text per day "thats fine, is eveything alright?" "Sorry about last night, I was so tired. How is your day?" "We're still meeting up Saturday, right?"). I've been thinking of giving it a few days and finally asking him "Do you feel comfortable with this friends with benefits thing? It doesn't seem like you do as much anymore. Its fine if you don't, I just don't want to purse something (or someone) that isn't working"

I don't like to be ghosted on, and he did this in the past many times. He always goes in cycles of hot and cold with me and I don't know if this is the actual end or another cycle.

So this guy went all out. He was extremely flirty and sweet to me. He would lock eyes with me at least 3 times in one day for no reason. He's get jealous and try to make me jealous. Other times when I paid him attention he'd ignore hot girls around me. I am very shy so I didn't do anything. We never talked. He probably thought I was ignoring him.
Time has passed, it's been a year now and he tries to make me jealous? He's still sweet but he flirts with practically every girl that's around me. Why?

This guy is confident and talkative around all people except me. He hangs with 4-5 girls all time, laugh with them, tease them, hugs them ans stuff.
I meet this guy 8 months ago. We talked a bit. He was sitting next to me and reaching for my rubber and when he would get with his hand close to me he would change his mind. i stand up with my cigarette in my hand and it was obvious where i was going and he asked me and he turned to me and aske me where i'm going. He little bit show off and talked a lot. Next time i see him he stared at me, going in and out of room coughing, asking for cookies,.. When i got out we loocked eyes for few seconds. He turns to see me leaving and said hi. I said it back but i think he didn't heard and next day he ignored me. We didn't see each other for 6 months and when he saw me he moved few meters to watch me leaving. He always stares from far, but when im close he ignores me or look for second. Sometimes when i catch him looking he looks away. One day i was ignoring me and after that was with his good friend and i my bag was in front of me on table and he saw us and start walking to us and lurking behind bag. His friends was on elevator and that guy who was with me told him to go. We all smiled and he waved us. Next day he was walking through my collage and he'd never walked there to his collage and it's longer and harder. Today he was waiting that girl friend.. they are really close (she have boyfriend i think still but im not 100% sure of that) and i was passing few meters from him and he didn't even notice me. Why this guy play hot and cold for 3 months now?

He used to be very flirty. He tried to make me jealous and would stare deep into my eyes at least three times everytime I saw him. he hit a guy I was checking out. Months passed and he had to speak to me and he was stammering and wasn't making sense. That night he said Goodnight (in person, before we never talked) and I replied. He sat near me the next morning and we didn't say anything to each other. As soon as our eyes met he would look away. At the same time a hot girl was eye effing him and he ignored her.
Time has passed since then. A week ago i spoke in class and he was staring dreamily with his mouth slightly open. Today I sat next to him. When he me and gave me the notes for the class. Then he did it for someone else came in. So I was like it doesn't mean anything. He was really confident in class. But we had to hold hands to make a circle, he held my hand tightly and was stammering when he spoke. Afterward he went over to talk to another girl (which he didn't go to talk to before). At first I was hurt, but he might have been trying to make me jealous like he did before. His friend was staring at me. Later I was walking around and I kept bumping into him. One time he was walking down the hall and he had his eyes on me the whole time. (I was like Daymn bby).
im gonna see him tonight. I was thinking of complimenting him or something (but not around his friends or my friends). Should I even bother?