Why Shallowness Is Killing Relationships

ashleymaries1990

I know looks are important to a degree but I think many of us place looks on a pedastool that somehow we believe pretty or handsome people are better off or that we would be better off if we looked better. But the funny thing is many of us are trying to attain an image but are we developing other significant aspects of ourselves like our personalities, how we treat others, and how we view ourselves internally?


I think when people judge a person based off their looks they are ignoring who that person is: their qualities, their life story, their history, their talents, their strengths, and their short comings. We could learn so much from people and be surprised if we gave them a chance not by their appearance alone but also by their personality.

Why shallowness is killing relationships



I think many men and woman miss out on potential relationships because they are trying to find the hottest person out there instead of the looking at the person as a whole. Many men and woman get into toxic relationships because they ignored red flags just because the person was attractive. Many people thought they found the one when really that person was just hot and they made up a fantasy about them.


I encourage everyone to start appreciating the people in their lives for who they are and not just for what they look like. Also to see them as beautiful even though they may not look like a supermodel on the cover of a magazine. Also recognize areas in your life where you may be rejecting kind people just based off the tiniest things you may be surprised at the kinds of people you meet when you learn to view them as a person and not as an object.

Why Shallowness Is Killing Relationships
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