Do you believe that if it's meant to be, it will be?

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thund3rlight · Accepted Answer

I like to believe that everything that is meant to be will find its way to you, but not everything is meant to be, some things are just random, just don't obsess with the outcome, live your life and enjoy.

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

I do. I have been proven this time and time again in my life.

ohsheeT · Answer

I believe that know matter what it is in life that we are looking for or want we have to do our part

Things our meant to be but we have to prove it in ways we have to make it work fight for it in a way. Or we have to learn from it and move on

There are times we want something so bad and we think it was meant to be

But it wasn't it was something even better it was a learning experience

In life when we fall down how long dies it take us to get back up

Do we lose ourself and stay down and dream and wish

Or can we be honest with ourselves and understand it wasn't meant to happen there is something greater to be had

Sometimes something happens and we think life is not fair

And its not until we except it and move on we find

Life is fair if we be honest with ourselves and keep going forward

Because this is going to sound crazy but its ok our lives right now are meant to be

And that's it we have ourselves

Then we have Society we have other people we have relationships we have cars we have boats we have toys we have animals we have everything to get us thinking about different things we have life we have enjoyment we have pleasure we have pain

We have everything to take us away from ourselves there is a much bigger picture out there this is our first stop learn as much as possible experience everything it's knowledge

You just got a job of a lifetime you are in a place with nothing but knowledge inside of it to grow

My belief is because you held yourself back for so long but that's neither here nor there what I believe

It's what you believe that's all that matters

Everything in life is a distraction how focused do you want to be on the reason why we're all here

When it comes to love we have all the things in the world that we can love everything right in front of us and that in itself is an experience too that we need to learn before our next stop

That is the only thing that is meant to be
And whatever it is that we believe in

So the things don't work out with the things that are put here to distract us you have to move on

And understand our distractions are meant to be because they're there to teach us something

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Finchie40 · Answer

Yes , if both people choose each other and make each other their top priority and they are both on the same page with things , then yes it’s meant to be

AviatorTom · Answer

Sure, when you work for it.

MVMartin · Answer

There is no fate. Only things you can and can't control. So focus on what you can control not on what you can’t. You can’t fully control people and outside world. You can only fully control your emotions, your actions and reactions , your mind or in others words your inner self. Everything else outside of you is either physics or mutual agreement. The closer you are to a 100% control on yourself the easier it is to have affect on the outside world and other people. Dont live in Fear. Fear is not real it is creating a vision/ thought of what bad might happen and your body reacting to that. Be free enjoy life. Most people are in prison in their own minds. Try this. Wake up in the morning and imagine its your last day on this world and you can't tell anybody and can't say goodbye. You can just live the day as any other normal day. Think about it hard and feel it. You will notice anxiety will disappear, you will not get angry by small things. You will not care what people think of you. The world will seem more beautiful. Your head will be clear. Everything you were worrying about and were fearing will seem like nothing like a joke. Every day you wake up might be your last day so so what you love and dont overthink and stay in you head 90% of human suffering is in their own head

Billlewis · Answer

No, I've never believed that. A century ago, the telephone was invented by accident. How much energy, effort and expense has been given away, simply because we believed that some unseen force would marshall our good intentions and carry us to happiness? Millions of people buy lottery tickets every day, with their mom's birthdate or their childhood street address on them, assigning unjustified importance to relatively meaningless things, due to superstition.

Zack-Bann · Answer

It’s an impossible observation to make
Because who decides what is “meant to be”
If there’s a higher power controlling our destiny tricking us into thinking our choices are our own then we wouldn’t be able to see it or prove it.
And if we truly have agency then we are responsible for our own destiny.

In both cases: our actions and choices decide what we end up getting.
So sitting around waiting for what’s “meant to be” is an easy way not to get it.

ElenaLena · Answer

No.. everything needs effort and work from all sides especially relationships.. so I don’t believe in that..

rose_noire · Answer

Partly.

I believe some people and paths are meant for you. But meant to be doesn't mean it will happen on its own.

It still asks you to show up, choose it, and do the work. Destiny opens the door. You still have to walk through.

lightbulb27 · Answer

no, if people put in effort there's a greater chance of it being.  I believe more that ships float around and sail around and they pass in the night unless they stop to make something happen.

sage2021 · Answer

I feel that way about love and other things. I believe that if you don't force yourself to make something happen that it probably won't happen. I leave it all up to God and the Universe.

blshbnz · Answer

I believe that what’s meant for you won’t always come easily, but it won’t require you to lose yourself trying to keep it either. The right people will find their way into your life.

Clara4567 · Answer

Nothing is meant to be, we are the one that decide if something is going to last, putting ourself out there and trying to make things work, nothing can't be meant to be if we don't work for that to happen

OneViewpoint · Answer

No I believe all evidence points to life being a series of random events that we may be able to impact if we can recognize the events unfolding.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... anything that's meaningful and worthy... will cost and if we don't make them happen too, then they just won't...

WhitneySnow · Answer

I believe that all things are according to God’s providence, so yes

Nikki1989 · Answer

With most things, no. If you put in little effort, you will get little reward.

gasman70 · Answer

No, that's a fool's paradise, it isn't based in reality. Long term relationships take real work, and real effort to maintain. Just believing it will be is the fast road to having it fall apart

FreyaRed · Answer

No. There is no predestination just rules which lead to predictable outcomes

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Yes. I also believe that you have to make good choices and work hard to get it.

MrChinaski · Answer

If you live your life well it is highly likely that good things will come to you.  Is any single particular thing meant to be? Nah.

slatyb · Answer

Nothing is meant to be. "Meant" implies willed by some conscious entity. There is no such entity.

Shiprex · Answer

I think it can be helped along with engagement and commitment

pearlshelledfairy · Answer

If a person doesn't give up on the one they love, they write their own destiny.

exitseven · Answer

No, I had an uncle who fought in WW2 who said fate favors the man who digs the deepest foxhole.

rgb008 · Answer

Yes but sometimes I force it 🤷‍♀️no harm helping out time.

Laulenke · Answer

I kinda still believe the old saying if you love someone you let them go if they come back then it’s meant to be

DarKnight36 · Answer

No, sometimes the things we want don't happen, no matter how hard we try.

Skyros · Answer

Of course and nice picture. I really like the black and white.

JazzieJanna · Answer

Yes I do

Lliam · Answer

Que sera sera.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

Sure, especially if there's a God 🙏🏻😉 or gods

lilBigPotato · Answer

Sadly that's not how life works.

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

I agree with that 💯

_Jenny_ · Answer

@simslover92 probably so

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, I believe shit happens.

whosnumber_1 · Answer

No. You have to put in the effort

Sal_Monella · Answer

Yes, except when it isn't.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. Forcing things don't work at all.

dudeinohio · Answer

Generally, yes

Alexson_stormzy · Answer

Obviously... That's a capital Yes

Markella83 · Answer

Yes and gotta work with it.

CubaPirate · Answer

To some extent yeah

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

I think so yes

DJB72 · Answer

Not without effort

Anonymous · Answer

Hopefully.

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe

Paige2006 · Answer

Yes I do

msc545 · Answer

Not really.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

Absolutely not

832dreamboy · Answer

Usually.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

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