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There's a lot of misconceptions about when a girl asks for more and the guy either can't give any more cause he thinks he has given her his best or he's just lazy and effortless. Sometimes, those girls are really spoiled and unappreciative and thats why other girls tend to feel a little embarrassed wen they confront their man about how he could've done something a little better because they don't want to come off as one of those unappreciative girls.

It's really hard especially w my boyfriend, to distinguish if he does value me or not. there's that saying "its not about having time, its about making time." He gave me a gift card for my bday and I was disappointed evn though he spent the weekend w me. I expected something more special but it made me feel like I'm not worth more than a gift card. But him spending my bday weekend w me meant he made time for me so does that make up for the gift card? When it comes to money, sometimes he makes me feel guilty if he paid for us in a passive-aggressive way and I'm just like you should WANT to spend money on me not like a million bucks but not mind spending on me instead of feeling bad for it.

So guys, what is the best way a guy can show how much he values her? I. E, if a guy makes time for you but doesn't give you the materialistic things, it still shows he values you. so in this case, time is the number one way a guy can show he values her.