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My boyfriend and I are planning to move in together, a new place for both of us that suits our work commutes.

He makes about three times what I do and has no debt, I have student loans and credit card debt.

He wants to have an account we each put a pre-determined amount into for house expenses (rent, electricity, Netflix, internet etc), and he will pay 66 % of that and me 34%, and we each pay our own bills and entertainment out of what we have left.

I don’t think this is fair, I want us to have one account we put ALL our money into, and we each get an equal amount “allowance” weekly from it, which is more than fair, he says that sucks because he earns so much more and can’t enjoy it. He said that sort of set up is for married couples.

Who is right?

Jasper is ten years old. His mother, Kara reads him bedtime stories every night and buys him whatever he wants regardless of the cost. When Kara cooks something Jasper doesn't like, he throws it away and tells her to make something different or he just outright refuses to eat it. She does and brought him a new super smash bros set. That night, Kara kisses him and says goodnight. Jasper smiled and says goodnight back.

Then one day, Jasper woke up to the sounds of a moving truck. He gets up and realizes Thor, his mother's boyfriend is moving in. He remembers his mother changing dresses before going to work because Thor said the dress she had on at first made her look like fat as hell.