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Our society doesn't really make us feel "desirable" compared to other races of women. I often get the feeling that there are a lot more men out there who are attracted to us, but they are probably hesitant to approach us for various reasons.

Honestly, we're just like any other race of women. We want to be loved and cherished too.

there’s a guy at work that’s my age. I keep seeing him looking at me, almost like he’s looking out for me, but I must admit I’m also looking out for him.

I am very attracted to him he’s very tall as am I, broad, and just seems so kind.

we work in a care home and he’s always overly very kind to the residents when I’m around.

Obviously I like this, but he is very often joshing with me and poking fun at me, for instance: today at work he said I look very pale. I said he was rude as I faked tanned last night (lol) and he said “what just your elbow?” I then looked at my elbow and saw it had an orange patch and I was really disappointed as I did my hole shibang of mortising and scrubbing :(

I called him a rude cunt lol but it was all light banter and continued how I had a friend who was much paler than me who in fact loved being very pale and didn’t like fake tanning.

he just always is trying to spark a convo in some way in a sarcastic “man” kind of way. Like once I was asking for a specific carer as a resident needed help and he told me they went home as they were sick in the staff room!! After staring at home I said “I don’t believe you..” and went to look for them myself, he then shouted my name and said “she’s in robin lounge haha”

It’s not a lot to go on but.. anyway if he does seem in anyway interested I really don’t know how to go about this as rejection is hard, especially in the work place so any help is greatly appreciated

So back in HS, I would tell people my frustrations with being able to get attention from guys. I was chubbier and have lost weight since, yet I am always single and already in my mid twenties. It clearly isn’t looking any brighter for me. But back in HS when people would hear of my situation, I would get feedback from people saying “just get with anyone”. I attracted attention from a few guys but they just never checked off my boxes or I did not care for their personality/appearance. But because I got attention just not from who I wanted, people would suggest that I get with them anyway. That to me is just saying that I should settle for whatever comes my way, it’s like they’re implying I can’t get any better. Would you also be turned off by this “advice”?