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Girl 1: Your personalities are almost the opposite. Have known for years and finally decided to ask out. She is shy, but when she starts to get to know you and be with you more often she starts to come out of her shell. She is your age or a little bit younger then you, by a few months. She has never hasn't been in a real relationship before. She has set boundaries with you. She dress up and does her hair just for you. Likes video games and would rather read a book then go out to parties. Nerdy type, wears glasses.

Or...

Girl 2: very much like your personality, likes your music. Have only known for a few weeks. She is very demanding, and asks you questions that are personal. She doesn't dress up, she usually wears sweatpants and a t-shirt when you go out. She would rather lay around and do nothing with you. Does not set boundaries, very open. A year of dating she broke up with you because you went to the army, she did not want you to go.

Who would you choose?

I like this guy from college, we have hit it off well, we are good friends and we have known eah other for 5 months.
He is an introvert, very nerdy, gamer geeky type, while I find him attractive (like a 8-10), people look at him and are like "no" (2-3)
He only close to about 3 girls, one is me, one os a friend, and the other is a crush that brother-zoned him and is dating her own boyfriend right now.
People think I can do better (8-10 by most)
Some facts:
-He knows I like him.
-We still flirt (He only flirts with me).
-He constantly glances and looks at me for a reaction to things like his jokes, but especially if he is playing a sport.
-I am the first girl to like him, ever.
-He is very serious in what he looks for in a relationship (like best friends type of thing, he won't just date you after one inital conversation or based on your looks)
-He is afraid of loosing me as a friend if we date (this is from context clues from a talk we had, he told me about how friends turned s/o turned to never speaking again)
-He dosen't want me to change.
-We have long talks, like 5-10 hour talks, all nighters.
-He gets jealous/ curious whenever I bring up a guy, and will have a sigh/look of relief when I say were not dating.
-When I told him this summer about how I stayed friends with all my crushes (i. e not letting my feelings over whelm a good friendship) he seems a lot more curious/ interested in me.
-He dosen't talk nearly as much to his crush anymore, and while we don't talk to much because of ur schedules, he will help me whenever I call.
-He is not the type to take initiative if he knows that the negative outcomes outweight the positives.

So summer is almost over and he is about to come back down for college, we have what I like to think are dates, set up (we choose some movie nights, just the two of us, disneyland, etc.)

When I told him I liked him, he said he wanted to stay just friends, but these things tell me he changed his mind, did he?
And if he did, should I say yes?

Hello everyone, I currently in high school (age 18) and i'm having issues with the boys - i know it should'nt get to me but they all make me feel so ugly and small, it's why i've never had a boyfriend (is that weird) people call me cute and innocent, i'm kinda awkward, and i like nerdy stuff like astronomy and sci fi- i'm reserved and shy - i dont really say much in class so that may be the reason - a guy liked me abot two years ago but i frecked out and it all went terribly wrong since then no-one guy has talked to me - i dont get it they like the ugly girls, all the skinny blonds - i think i'm average looking - i'm altlectic, and tall but i dont really dress 'girly" i like more natural hoodies and jean tops, i'm 150ibs and 5'8 foot tall - i dont know if its me or if the boys are just shallow, i feel very alone. Does it get better after school?