Search Results: getting over someone boyfriend

Help pls! How do you get over someone you see everyday?

Its a big problem for me, as i can't seem to find a way to forget about her! I can't explain our relationship? Its someone that i work with, I've know her for a while now, but things started happening last year when...

James990

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Two months ago boyfriend hung out with an ex and "can't remember where he slept/woke up." Am I overreacting?

They weren't bf/gf but last year around October they had a thing for two months. She ended it saying she feels he wasn't that into her and he said that he thought she was fun to be around but didn't think it was going...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

If you're in love with your partner, would you need a week break? My boyfriend asked for 1 week break?

Anonymous

(30-35)

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year. he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year.
he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone
so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and he said something that kinda offended me and i went full silent mode and got pissed a little.. and then i hanged up on him
he kept trying to call back but i ignored his calls
i think he called about 4 or 5 times until i picked up and told him that ill talk to him the next day
so today he texted "morning" and i didn't reply
he was at work but he still tried to call me and then he sent me messages saying "you always do this to me. I've had enough. i have my limits too. i need to talk to u tonight. ill come over"
and then tonight he drove to my place and we talked for about 10 mins
this is what he said to me:
"look.. im just gonna keep this short. this is getting too much. i told u so many times that i hate being ignored. its so immature. i have my limits and this has reached it. i want a girl who treats me like respect back and that would fight for our relationship. i feel like you dont have the same feelings as i do for you. i feel like you're going to not care if we do break up. you never hold my hands, you never appreciate what i do. i take u to places wherever you wanna go, i take u out, i drive to you and u never appreciate all that. im just confused about you now. i need time to think about us, our relationship. i need 1 week to think if we both benefit each other. i dont care about the good sex that we have. i care about the relationship and if you're wife material. im thinking of the future not fucking around. so please give me 1 week to think and for yourself to think as well. i will see you next week. dont break up with me over the phone"
and then we parted ways.
Thing is, he tells me he loves me everyday and he doesn't want me to leave him.
Yet he might want to leave me
If someone truly loves their partner, would they still need a week break? Does it sound like it may lead to a breakup?

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Dating

Am I being led on? Or just paranoid?

I met the guy I'm seeing on a dating site. We've been seeing each other for over a month. His job keeps him really busy (Over 40 hours a week). Sometimes we have to postpone our dates because of his job. We see each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I feel like I have no one?

I feel like I can't talk to anyone. I have been having suicidal thoughts lately but I don't feel I can open up to anyone. My friend was helping me find a relationship and after 3 months of rejection after rejection I gave...

NespaDon

Xper 5 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Should I stop talking to a girl I kinda like? I'm not sure if I messed up or if she's just being nice or if she's hiding something from me?

There's a girl I've been talking to over a month now. When we first started she really liked me, but I didn't like her at first. Then after meeting her a few times and getting to know her I thought she was a great person....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

False rape claims on the rise?

A few years ago a girl lied and said I raped her. I had proof I didn't do it. On the night of the incident I had been playing Gears of War til about midnight with a few friends over Xbox Live. That wasn't enough, and it...

ananias_05

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend messages me out of the blue after strict radio silence then doesn't reply when I respond? What's his end game?

Okay I broke up with my ex boyfriend a little over a month ago after an incredibly stressful week in which he had slipped back into his paranoia. He's been overseas and has very bad PTSD, and while he never physically did...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What To Do When Your Parents Don’t Like Your New Love Interest

I recently posted an answer to the question "What would you do if your parents did not accept your partner?" Several users suggested that I develop my answer into a myTake on this subject. I’m not too old to listen to...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend just turned sour towards me and now wants nothing to do with me?

Met this guy in Facebook he went to my high school last year but decided to go back to his school and I never really took much notice of him whilst he was at my school and then a year later in may we started talking and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why can't I form a genuine relationship?

I feel pretty depressed lately over how my romantic life has been up to this point, In summary: My first boyfriend who I met overseas and continued a LDR with ended up lying about many things, including wanting to visit...

LaCipota

Xper 5 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Why Feminism is Harmful to Society

This take is inspired by a feminist with whom i was argueing on here, who despite my best efforts would not see the bad side of feminism and just kept demanding for evidence that the cause of those issues was in fact...

lord_chilled

Yoda Age: 30

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Relationships

What to do if my boyfriend is depressed?

Okay so today me and my boyfriend spoke to each other and he is really upset and depressed. I already know that he is and we have talked about it before. I try talking to him about talking to a doctor, a counselor, or try...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Does he like me or is he playing games?

He's someone from my past that used to like me but we never dated because I didn't like him as much. We haven't talked for over a year and we got back in contact recently and spent time together because I was in town....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

It is possible being in love with two people in the same time?

Long short story: I broke up with my ex 8 months ago.. but still until this moment couldn t move over ! I have a relationship with someone that s opposite, so different then him. However they are both good people. Since I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

What should I do to save us?

I don't know how I should feel about my boyfriend. Even though we are not official, we're basically an item, he just has commitment issues. I don't know what else to call him cause he's more than a friends with benefit....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Pregnant and boyfriend left me for someone else! Help?

I'm 18 weeks pregnant and ex of 4 years left me when I was 8 weeks pregnant for someone else... he's cheated in the past but like an idiot I've took him back. But this time it was for a different girl while I'm pregnant....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Ignoring my boyfriends calls/texts? Bad idea? read the story?

We broke up in September. 6 months went by and we both couldn't move on. He came back into my life end of March asking for a fresh start. I was skeptical due to how badly he handled the breakup/post breakup. He admitted...

kld66

Xper 4 Age: 32

Dating

Ignoring my boyfriends calls/texts for a week? Yes or no?

kld66

Xper 4 Age: 32

Dating

How do I tell my mom I might be possibly dating this guy?

So. This might be long. Okay I'm 19 and the guy I've been seeing for the past seven months is 23. He's currently in grad school, works, and does DJing on the side. He's my first "boyfriend" ever. Well. The only thing is...

Anonymous

(25-29)