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I’m 22 and this guy is 19. I had the chance to meet him at the gym. I look younger and people always mistake me for a teen while he’s really mature and muscular, and he look more like a guy in his mid 20’s. so we started to flirt by some glares, but he made the first step by asking me if I wanted to do some workouts with him. We started to know each other, we both had a direct chemistry and we are both fervent Christians! But A week after knowing him I was going to have a heart attack when he told that he was born in 2000, and that he closed his 19’s the last week. It was like a break down for me. He was also surprised when I told him my age, but more because I look younger. He he’s very handsome, athletic, mature, intelligent and funny, and a good Christian, but I feel so bad! I know they if the gender were reversed it wouldn’t be a matter, or if he was at least 1 year younger. He invited me to have a dinner with me, and told me that he wanted to know me more, because he wasn’t able to stop looking at me, since we first meet. All my friends, ( even my mom) says that I would be crazy to reject such a good guy because of his age, and I know deep inside that it would be a mess, but I’m also affraid of what the others would think about me! I am working in a company and he’s a student, is it really seen as weird?

I dated a man on and off for 6 months. We both liked each other a lot. Our chemistry was great. In November he told me he didn’t want to date anymore which I said was fine. We still would hang out after that though. I also made it explicitly clear we would not be friends with benefits.
Unfortunately he didn’t care about that boundary I set and he touched me inappropriately at a time when I was vulnerable. He took advantage of me and the situation. It hurt me, he betrayed my trust in him. He didn’t even apologize about it, I think he actually felt entitled to it. I reported him for it also.
He has tried multiple times to get me to talk to him. I haven’t had any contact wit him since that happened. The last time he contacted me he told me he really misses me, wants to talk and hopes to hear from me. I keep debating With myself on if I should hear what he has to say then be done with it. I’m such a forgiving person and I’m not good at holding grudges. Would you give the person who did this to you a chance to apologize and explain themself?