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Search Results: paying for the first date
I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this, but hear me out.
So I have a situation on my hands. I'm dating 2 guys at the same time. One guy moved to my college town from my hometown and we started talking and hanging out a lot. He would try super hard by cooking for me and paying...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I turn him off? What happened?
So... I met this guy about 2 months ago while we were waiting for the same bus. We hit it off real quick! We have the same taste in music, interests, we just had the chemistry. Our convo on the bus was long and personal,...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I help my friend become successful with women? How do I cure him?
Where to start? Well, first off, my friend actually does want to change, and has told me. I’m not forcing anything upon him, but even though he wants to change, he’s being uncooperative. My friend is 22 years old. He’s...
Anonymous
(30-35) Unbalanced attitude and letters
I had been in a relation with a guy of my age for three months until he declared that he liked me so much and wanted to make love with me, could not stand etc. I rejected him at first, but at the end of the night we...
Anonymous
(36-45) What am I supposed to do with this chick?
II need serious help... its a long story but PLEASE read the whole thing and give me advice. So I've been working this chick for about 8 months... At first I hated her guts so much and found he super annoying but after...
Slimshizz
Xper 5 Age: 32 Going "dutch" on dates. Thoughts?
Having dated online for some time I notice a lot of girls would just disappear without notice. It's only a first date so I assume no click. So lately I have been on a "strictly coffee" basis. But if I wanted to do...
Theguyoverthere
Guru Age: 41 Hiding wealth while dating?
So I'm quite fortunate to have money and a high paying job, so my life is pretty stable now. I hear how about how important money is to the dating scene. I can treat a girl like a queen, but I don't want to be take...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did the date go well or horrible?
Background: Girl and I have known each other for year, but she lives in a different State than I. She is currently at an amusement park with her family in the State that I live in. The Date: We planned on dinner last...
wheelerau
Xper 5 Age: 31 I resigned from job but my boss wants me to leave before the resignation date Help>>what to do?
First off I am leaving because I am going back to school full time. The hr manager claims he is happy for me then the next day he proposes that I leave before my last day(Aug 14 but July 31st instead). I gave the company...
Amanda2
Explorer Age: 35 Guys do you find it offensive if a girl asks for 2 checks on a date?
I don't see the point in having a guy pay for the first date, only to have him ask me to pay for half or the whole thing the 2nd-3rd date. So I usually just ask for two checks. When the waitress comes along. That way I...
washize
Yoda Age: 35 Who pays more in the relationship?
Yes, the classic money question. We became a long-distance couple after we graduated college. I bought a plane ticket to see him, paid for it myself. FYI we're both currently living off savings. Recently my mom voiced...
Girl1991
Xper 5 Age: 35 Does she even care? what should I do?
Me and this girl have been dating for over 4 months and about a month ago I asked her to be my girlfriend. She and I had a long talk about how she wasn't planning on a relationship and wanted to stay single. She told me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do any of you play Sims Life Stories and have problems with it?
I do enjoy playing Sims Life Stories (I am currently on Riley's Story), BUT once I get only so far into playing it it will stop working right. It won't let me complete a "chapter." Like, right now, I am at the part where...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are we friends or dating again?
This guy and I dated for about 10 months and broke up about a year ago. In the last six months he and I have begun to see each other again. The first go round he didn't have a job and was insecure. Now, he has gotten a...
curiousmind0613
Xper 3 Age: 41 Should I text my ex girlfriend?
So me and my ex girlfriend dated for 1.5 years. The last month of the relationship she did a total 180 and just seemed to hate me. Her attitude towards me was just shocking. She then blocked my number and Facebook. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Taking your date on vacation.
So I want to take the girl I'm dating on a vacation somewhere. I met her about 60 days ago, we both were busy with studies but now we're both on break. At first we were meeting once a week and progressing at a good pace...
paulj4
Xper 5 Age: 37 I am so confused, what should I do/say?
So me and a friend have recently started messaging each other on Facebook, and we've exchanged numbers and set up a date to hang out. The only thing is that I have a boyfriend but I feel as if I'm falling for the other...
Anonymous
(30-35) Here's an interesting one, how do I know he's being honest and upfront?
So, I have been on dating sites for well over 4 years and I was contacted by a guy that was patiently waiting for me to respond to him. The reason I didn't was because it just seemed too good to be true. He's got the...
anubitebaby
Xper 5 Age: 35 Ladies, how can I ask her this without her breaking up with me instantly?
I believe that the guy should always pay for the first date (if he's the one who asked anyway), and I'm even fine with paying for every date until the relationship is established. But I think once the relationship is...
wizeyy100
Xper 5 Age: 42 Ladies, am I wrong for thinking this way?
I believe that at least on the first date, the guy should pay. I have no problem with that, and I'm fine with it if I have to pay for all the dates, but I believe once a relationship is established, then things should...
wizeyy100
Xper 5 Age: 42 