Search Results: rushing into a relationship

Why is desperate a turn off?

I don't really understand it. People claim they want a real relationship. No fuck buddies, no games, no hookups. But when you come off as desperate, they turn you away. Why? You finally found someone wanting that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How to ask what he's looking for?

I've gone on a couple dates with a guy. We talk almost everyday and we seem to have a connection. I want to know what he's looking for. A relationship? Friends with benefits? Something else? I just don't know how to...

Natalie87

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Dating or Friends with Benfits?

I've gone on a couple dates with a guy. I want to know what he's looking for. A relationship? Friends with benefits? Something else? I just don't know how to casually bring it up without him thinking I'm rushing things. I...

Natalie87

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Please help. What do I do about this girl?

I've been seeing this girl now for a couple months and we really seem to like each other. I'm 22 and she's 18, both in college. I haven't gotten a single bad sign from this girl that she has no interest. We've gone on two...

turk44

Xper 4 Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Really need advice on this girl. Please help?

turk44

Xper 4 Age: 31

Dating

Guys, Should I invest the time into making it work or just walk away?

I've been dating a guy long-distance for a little over a year, and I relocated to a city nearby him (was already planning to relocate to the area prior to us dating). I met him originally several years ago via a couple of...

Gates84

Xper 3 Age: 41

Relationships

How likely is a man to change?

My now ex and I were together for 2 years. I caught him cheating on me through twitter and snapchat after a year into our relationship. He promised he would change. Things were going great and I got pregnant. He...

Kalyy435

Xper 4 Age: 32

Dating

Sorry the the long paragraph but... What should I do?

I have a huge crush on this guy. He is a very, very busy man (in the best military school in the country). And if your into astrology, he is a capricorn and introverted (I'm a virgo). He asked me out twice but both times...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why isn't he more affectionate?

Hi, so I've been dating this guy for a couple of months now. He's really sweet and we get on really well. Although we hug each other, when we say goodbye, he hasn't kissed me and in fact he doesn't really touch me much. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

A Random Retelling of My 2016 (POLL inside)

Warning: This will probably be a very low quality piece. I'm feeling especially emotional, and this site is sort of an outlet for me to get out those emotions on occasion. I'll be sharing a personal experience, and it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Dating

I really like this girl and I don't want to ruin it?

So I really like this girl but she recently got out of a relationship so I don't want to press, she also said that she wants to take time to focus on herself and not have a boyfriend. I fully support her in what she wants...

Toxic1562

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

I really like her and I don't want to ruin it by coming on to strong?

Toxic1562

Xper 4 Age: 26

So I really like this girl but she recently got out of a relationship so I don't want to press, she also said that she wants to take time to focus on herself and not have a boyfriend.

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Relationships

I've a quiet personality, but with a lot of passion and willingness to be in a settled stable relationship. I was once married for 4.5 years but to?

to a man who I did not love and a man who was in a rush to marry 'anyone' for his convenience and to not have to hold much responsibility in the household. My dating history hasn't been great. The longest was 7 months...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Make Amends Before It's Too Late

We are but a few hours out from 2017 which for a lot of people means a fresh start, making changes in their lives, and trying to figure out ways to do better for themselves and their families in the new year. I think part...

BeeNee

Influencer Age: 43

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Relationships

Is it normal that I don't feel the need to rush into a relationship with this guy?

He's the first guy I've ever liked that I've felt this way with. Like I actually feel safe taking things slow with him and we don't mind going days without contact. Is that weird? Does this mean our relationship isn't strong?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I explain my lack of relationship experience if asked?

So I'm 26 and will be 27 in 2 weeks and have dated, sex, etc but no real relationship or official girlfriend. It doesn't keep me from trying, nor do I put it out there, but I kinda feel like telling someone I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Love and pain what can a guy do?

im talking to this girl on facebook and she told me that she doesn't wanna rush into a relationship because in the two previous ones she was abused my question is why does it seems hard for girls to open up but doesn't...

Beasll74

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating

How To Date Multiple People At Once Like a Pro

I just saw this as a question and it reminded me that I've developed a working system for how I serial date to really unfair levels. Ok, so I'm going to skip ahead to actually having some people you want to talk to and...

pavlove

Editor Age: 34

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Dating

Broke up with the girl I was supposed to marry and now I have 4 girls who want to be in serious relationships with me. but I dont know what to do?

i dont know what to do? or dont know what i want? or which one i want? ... not exactly OK so let me break it down... i went out with this chick off OK Cupid 3 years ago for a date which turned out amazing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why Quality is More Important Than Quantity

One of the things I've noticed this year is that I've had dates and hookups with the most attractive women, out of all women I've dated in my life, but none of them ever led to a relationship. If there was a guinness...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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