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There are sometimes eye catching questions around here, which provoked your interest and then when clicking on it and reading the description you are pretty much speechless or disappointed or you can sense, that the question asker is not actually trying to get help and then you feel like just browsing the next question instead without leaving a comment. Or you brush it off with a laugh.

questions like: "he hugged me. Am i pregnant?"

or "HEEELP! I'm scared and don't know what to do?" - > turns out she doesn't want to break up with an abusive jerk

or "is he cheating?" - > turns out she got suspicious because his last Facebook post was 24 hours ago and he has some female contacts, that he keeps in touch with.

or "why is my girlfriend doing this?" - > turns out he was nothing more than a just in case backup guy. Or a rebound.

or "why didn't he pay? Is he cheap?" - > turns out *she* asked him out and then *she* asked if they could split the bill. They did. She was left unhappy after her own actions and threw a fit about it on him afterwards, to which he responded polite at first how they agreed to split the bill and more so since she asked him out on such a date and then later just blocked her. True story, happened on GAG.

or "boyfriend steals my phone?" - > turns out her boyfriend just takes her iphone like its his own without asking her and places it where she can not always find it. Then she asks "what the F am i supposed to do?". I was generous enough to reply with "you break up?". Auto-MHO earned.

so pretty much questions, that aren't questions and that the answer is obvious and undeserving of a response. How often have you encountered them?

In the last 2 years I’ve been the worst guy ever. I dated 3 women and treated them really badly. They’re still traumatized up to now. The first one was a girl I dated for 4 years. She was super nice to me. But after three years she admitted to cheating on me. So I got revenge cheating. And it became an addiction. She tried as hard as she can to make things work. But I continued cheating. We finally broke up just this September. She still hurting!

The second girl really liked me and wanted something serious. I just played games and strung her along. Messed around behind her back causing her humiliation.

The third woman was still living with her ex husband. She wanted a serious relationship me. She was there for me in my time of distress. Did so much for me. But I didn’t appreciate anything she did. Never took her serious because she wasn’t fully separated from her husband. And just held on to her until I found someone new. Plus I verbally abused her the other day. And permanently left her scard.

Now I’m feeling so guilty and can’t sleep at night. It keeps haunting me what I did. I know I’m gonna eventually get karma for the shit I did. But how do I deal with it now? Would women still date me knowing this about me? I treat my current girlfriend with respect by the way. But she paranoid because I confessed the past to her!

I used to be a shy nerd that got fucked with by women. I was that guy who was too scared to look at another woman while in a relationship. All I did was get cheated on. Then I eventually gave up on females and just used them as sex objects.

Now I’ve come to realize I’m just as bad as females who’ve caused me emotional pain. I can’t live with myself right now. Sometimes I wake up in tears... because the women I really hurt didn’t deserve what I did to them!!!

I've made a completely 180 change. Would u still date me if you knew about all of this first hand?