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I just absolutely give up looking for a partner. I’ve tried almost every dating app. And am always single. Everyone I’ve known has been able to easily find a partner whether it be through an app or meeting people in person.

I have had “friends” previously that I’d go out with and guys didn’t give me the time of day. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight and regardless of how I look, people don’t notice me. I only get attention from guys that I wouldn’t date and that’s rarely. So that does not count.

Everyone i I know is able to find love without trying and I don’t understand why or how I’m always alone. It’s extremely unfair and I don’t know what else to do. I’m in my mid twenties and even though I’m shy, dating should not be this hard for a young woman. While I do have low self esteem, people have told me throughout my life that I’m attractive and this doesn’t only include family/ “close friends”.

Paid nor free apps work for me. I don’t have friends in real life so I rely on these apps. And people I’ve met are able to find someone without much effort. While here I am alone. I am that woman that is always alone. No friends or partner in my life. I’ve considered losing more weight and wonder if that’ll change the lack of attention I’ve received. What bothers me is someone I used to see for a few months was able to move on to a new girlfriend shortly after I stopped talking to him. I’m not into him anymore, it just bugs me how he is able to move on and find someone likes him while I’m always single. And people told me that I’m more attractive than him/ could do better.

Am i I the unluckiest person ever or is this the way dating usually is for most women? Because I don’t think it is.

i work with this guy. I notice when I walk by him he sees me, I look at him and he quickly looks away. One time he was talking to this coworker, I walked by them and he looked at me but would not look away. His eyes were following me like a dog when it sees some delicious food lol. He stares at the floor or something else until I walk by him completely then he's looking at me again. When he sees me talking to some guys he knows, he joins the conversation. One of the guys complimented me, I smiled and he looked at me like he wanted to say something to me too but chickened out i guess. Now its like every time he sees me he's gets so excited especially when im alone. Yesterday I was all by myself, he saw me and he smiled sooo big. He walked towards my direction but I pretended to be on my phone. He got on this computer that was near me and he sat there for a long time. I ended up walking away because I was too shy lol. I also notice that if im somewhere he turns into a snail (becomes slow) and stays there for a long time ! I've never had a guy crush on me before which is why Im so confused. I like him too.

I changed schools people would be mean to me sometimes in my old school but now people are mean to me in my new school without me doing anything since i am shyer than most people and nervous i dont really talk and just prefer to be alone. I came to this school and i have been called weird, crazy, ugly (by guys and girls) etc. And i was wondering if i was just a victim of this world all the time or if this happens to everybody in their life too. Does it have to do with me being different from the others and awkward and shy? Because i dont want to be this way either.