I am shy and I'm not afraid to admit that. It's not wrong to be shy. It does not mean I am submissive or, as they say, "a beta male". It's just the way I am.
So if you ever encounter someone, especially a guy, like me, just keep these stuff in mind...
1) Give me space - That is very important. And by that I mean space both literally and figuratively. I don't like random touches from strangers.
2) Approach me carefully - Not that I would kill you if you approached me, but it's just don't approach me when someone is nearby. I won't like that. And even better option, talk to me online. I can talk much more comfortably online.
3) Dont force me to open up - There are already some bloodsuckers doing that. I don't want you into my blacklist. (Oh blacklist? Its just introverts thing)
4) I can't talk to girls - why? Cuz I'm shy. Nothing to laugh about!!! Stop!
5) Approaching is your thing - That is not my thing. We all are good at suppressing our feelings. We have been doing it for a very long time.
6) We are nice - Nice to everyone. We are rarely rude. We just don't care if someone says anything bad. Sometimes we are too lazy to give it back.
7) Awkwardness - It is a daily thing for us. Nothing new. We are awkward around everybody. Don't feel weird.
8 ) DO NOT MAKE FUN OF ME. EVER. PERIOD.
9) I love being alone. That doesn't mean I am sad or depressed or something is wronf with me. I love my own company.
That's it from me. Shy guys aren't that complicated. We just see things differently.
Well, I hope I answered a lot of things. But if I didn't, my message box is always open for suggestions and questions and feedbacks. 😊
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Absolutely spot on.
I'm an INTJ, (the Mastermind / the Architect), and I'm fiercely independent. I would like you to respect that.
I like regularity: I like to talk to you over social media on a regular basis. As the INTJ personality, I have a plan for almost everything. It would annoy me greatly if you interfere with that plan. (I even have a plan on how to "court" you).
We don't like surprises. Surprises mean that there is a change in plan. I don't like to change my plan.
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Don't make fun of you? Dude lighten uuuuupppp