Examining Shy Guys and Their Behavior

[bobmans]

Shy guys are the most misunderstood people in the world. Shy guys are confused for being a player or a hard to get person, but that's not the case. As a shy guy and having friends that are shy like me, I know they aren't playing hard to get or being a player; they are just misunderstood for that.

What shy guys do

1) Friendly Online but ignore you in person

Most shy guys will snap you and text you and stuff, but if you're walking next to them, they start walking away faster. If you are talking to them in person they look at their cellphone or make an excuse to leave. They want to be with you but they can't handle the pressure.

2) They look at you

If you have the same class or you are in the same room, they will look (glance) at you

many times.

...(more signs...)

Shy guys are the best type of guys on the planet (in my opinion) , because they like you and they want to spend more time with you. They really love you. They love you for who you are. They are really committed and they will almost never cheat on you. If you broke up with them they won't move on very fast because they only like a few people.

If you have any questions or experiences, comment or send me a direct message. If you can't send me a direct message, Comment "ntwrkng" and I'll send you the message.

[Lil_RedVelvet_Jess]

Thanks for this insight. This makes me feel better about how the guy I like will talk to me a bunch in text messages, and then the next day at school might act like we didn't talk, or just looks at me a lot and says little to my face...
I never thought he was shy because he's a very extroverted kind of person, especially around his friends. Maybe he's shy around me? Either way thanks for this post!

[Stevan7]

I would argue that they are best option for girl. If they can't approach a girl how do you expect them to do anything ballsy when life requires you to?

[bobmans]

They aren't the best but they are better than confident players. There are some (20%) guys that are brave guys that are also loving but most guys these days fall into the shy loving (40%) guys or confident players (40%) category. So , shy guys are the second best, and sometimes more loving and caring than the brave non-players.

[freakyzeaky]

Just because a guy is shy around women, or is shy socially, doesn't mean he is not ballsy or confident in other areas of his life.

[Anonymous]

Almost a year ago I stopped all forms of communication between the shy guy I really liked since he was so confusing/not responding to my texts. We've hooked up a handful of times, and we've only seen each other at night. Was I just a f#ck buddy? Now I can't get him off my mind. Do you think he's lost interest and I should just get over myself?

[bobmans]

you were a just a f#ck buddy and he was definitely not shy. Shy guys don't bang with people at night. therefore, he is a player of some sort which means he got over you.

[Marialoveshearts16]

shy guys will never tell the girl they like her because he is afraid of rejection from the girl

[doodlecake]

Yup. Why ruin the little we have, for an endeavor doomed to fail?

[Marialoveshearts16]

@doodlecake do shy guys end up asking the girl out

[doodlecake]

Sometimes. Depends. Sometimes we can man up and ask. Other guys just stay silent forever.

[bobmans]

That doesn't mean they stop liking you

[Marialoveshearts16]

do some shy guys like the girl a long time before they ask the girl out

[bobmans]

Sometimes

[Marialoveshearts16]

so not all guys

[bobmans]

Some eventually ask a girl out, but others never ask her out but like her for a really long time

[Marialoveshearts16]

do shy guys have like a journal about their secret crush

[bobmans]

Some shy guys have journals but some other shy guys (guys like me) don't have journal.

[Marialoveshearts16]

what do they right about their secret crush

[bobmans]

"She smiled at me today"
"She is so cute today"
" I wish i talked to her when I had the chance"
"She noticed me for the first time"
e. t. c

[Marialoveshearts16]

do they talk about in their journal about asking her out

[bobmans]

If they did... "I asked her out today and she said _______________."
if they didn't... "I had the chance to ask her but I didn't, I'm stupid"

[Marialoveshearts16]

do they tell about family about the girl

[bobmans]

Mostly no, but maybe some guys that are really close to their parents but it's rare

[Marialoveshearts16]

what about friends or best friends

[bobmans]

They mostly tell their best friends

[Marialoveshearts16]

like what?

[bobmans]

He guys , i think i like this girl, she is cute and stuff, but I don't know what to say to her... help me pls

[Marialoveshearts16]

do you think the guy i like has journal about me

[bobmans]

Maybe

[Marialoveshearts16]

do you think i'm his one and only

[bobmans]

Most likely

[Marialoveshearts16]

how come he never told me how he felt

[bobmans]

Shy guys, that's what we do

[Marialoveshearts16]

all the time

[bobmans]

Sometimes they might tell you but mostly the dont

[Marialoveshearts16]

so you have to asked them?

[bobmans]

mostly

[Marialoveshearts16]

do you think he will tell me soon

[bobmans]

I don't know, it matters what kind of guy he is

[Marialoveshearts16]

tha'ts true

[MissSakura]

great take

[bobmans]

thanks

[Chytravers]

Ntwrking

[bobmans]

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[bobmans]

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[Chytravers]

Ok sorry

[bobmans]

About what?

[Adigelunar]

thanks for sharing