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So, I've known this guy since I was 11, and he was 17, but we were never friends. Now I'm 13, and he's 19, but he never knew how old I was. On Saturday, he told me that he had a crush on me, and thought that I was 'the one', and was going to ask me to be his girlfriend, but then he asked my older brother how old I was, and when he found out my age, he decided that he didn't like me anymore. The way he said it told me that he was lying, I felt like he still had feelings for me, because I certainly have feelings for him, but our relationship would be illegal. Now he says that he likes my 'cousin' who's eighteen, but she wants nothing to do with him. He said that he wants to settle down with her, but she keeps rejecting him. It hurts, how inconsiderate he was. So I wanted to know what you guys would think, should I just forget about him, although I'm moving out in three years, and we might have a chance, should we just keep our relationship a secret (if we have one), or should we just wait until there won't be any trouble. I'm scared that we won't be able to wait that long though. It's not like he's going anywhere because he decided out of college because of financial issues, and I'm still in school for another four years. We would have one year of freedom (I'm applying for emancipation when I turn 16), until I have to move up north for college. I always planned on being single and staying in a dorm room at my college, but now that we might be together in the future, I have to put that in the center, and make decisions based off of that. Do you think that this is too complicated, or will the patience and the efforts pay off in the end?