I sympathise with you.
You're insecure. You know that. Whatever. That's for you to work on. And you know she's a normal human being and is attracted to other people but she loves you. It stings, and it hilights all the things you don't like about yourself. I know how you're feeling. I was in the same boat regarding my guy and porn.
But it's NOT okay for her to say those things and swoon over them in front of you. Especially after knowing it upsets you.
To me, she sounds very immature and you need to confront her about it firmly. Tell her that you don't feel like your feelings matter to her when she does this and bloody hell, it's not going to kill her to just shut her mouth about it when you're around. It's okay to swoon over other people. But it's not okay to hurt your boyfriend.
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im hella into kpop too. there is a definite difference between a real life loved one and admiring an idol. dont feel inferior! if she cared more about kpop idols than you should wouldn't be dating you. you obviously have a place in her heart and im sure the more affectionate/intimate you two become the less she'll focus on k-idols
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being a kpop fan i can understand how she feels , it must be hard for you too but don't worry it's just her interest, she just admires those guys as her idols. you shouldn't really worry about it , just focus on her and maybe get her jealous with the celebs you admire loll
Cheer up dude she's with you
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