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Last year I met him in one of my classes. I was the only person he'd go up to for Q&A's from on the classwork as well as asking me if we had a quiz or can I use your eraser. Simple things like that. But it was only to me. No one else. He hardly talks in any of his classes. I asked him to be in 3 projects with me and he said yes to all. He asked for my # due to we couldn't do it on the day I assigned to do it on. A month later I kind of texted him for a while but his replies were short and would text back an hr or more later. He never texted first. His friend in that class with me would tell me that the shy guy is ripped and things he'd tell him, Tell her you play hockey. He would say no, or put his head down/smile. When I talked to him, he replies differently than he does with other girls. He says a few words or nods his head. A few times when I'm near him he breathes a bit deeply. He's a bit nicer when his friends aren't near me.

Last summer I texted him a bit but it was again not very much he would say.

Senior year his friends mentioned me or giggle to him jokingly when I was around. The shy guy would say "I don't like her. She's weird or shut up." A girl that he barely knows went to him and asked about me. He said very quickly, I don't understand why so many people think that I like her. She's overreacting. 3 weeks ago I told him that I've liked him for a year. He was looking at his phone, had a small shyish smile. "Sure alright thanks... bye." Then left. The same day he texted me and said sorry about walking off earlier I'm pretty shy. I said why are you shy. He didn't text back. Then I said tbh when you left I thought you wanted to ignore me. He didn't text back. 4 days later I texted him the real reason I wanted to confess to him. It was about his friends teasing him about me and that I thought he knew. I also said if there's anything you want to tell me, I'm here. I also said sorry about asking why he's shy. He didn't text back.

I met a guy on a dating site about 5 years ago. We hung out maybe 2 times after. The first year we knew each other we didn't have sex toghther. The second year we did after not hanging out all that time. He always makes plans with me but rarely follows threw. I got pissed at him for a while for something he said & i blocked him. He stayed blocked for about 6 months. The whole time I had a feeling that he still texted me out of curiousity I unblocked him. Not even a week later I got a hey text from him he texted me almost weekly just hey nothing else for about 2 months. ( wanted to see if he was going to say something else eventually.) finally I asked him why he still text me If I haven't responded in a long time. I forgot what he said, but we ended up hanging out again. Then back to the same thing were he'd text me & stand me up. I chaned my number. I had posted something one day online with out a picture & he wrote it but he typed my old user name with a? mark. Like asking If it was me with out putting my name on it. I dont know but I thought it was cute that he still remembered my user name even tho I don't remember his. we hung out again 1 time Back to the no shows again. I moved & told him I'm not coming back... 3 weeks after I come back I didn't tell him but he texted me and asked if I was back like he knew I was or something & ask to hang out. Last night I asked him why he only hangs out with me once a year his response was "idk. I've always liked you". I was going to write "well you should stop blowing me off so much and date me" instead I wrote "once a year" Basically do you think he actually likes me or he just wants to know I'm around if there's no one else... I like him but all this blowing me off stuff is getting old. Some times he doesn't text me for months tho. so Also wondering If It seems like he is mayb only cotantacting me after break ups?

1 year ago he gave me his number because we had to do a project together. Months later I texted him a bit but his replies were short and he would text back an hr or more later. He never texts first. His friend who we had the same class with would tell me the shy guy is ripped. The shy guy would do is put his head down/smile. Once his friend whispered to him, Tell her you play hockey. The shy guy doesn't talk to me. I tried to but he sounds bored or doesn't know what to say. With other girls he sounds much different. That whole year I was the only one in class he would go for help/get answers from.

Senior year his friends would mention me jokingly to him when I'm around. The shy guy would say, I don't like her, she's weird, no, or shut up. Once his friend and him saw me in the halls. The friend nudged him, pointed at me and gave me a wtf face. The shy guy looked at me then looked away. His face was blank. One time in class his friends and him were doing an art project as a group. I asked, Wow who came up with this design? His friend said, The master (shy guy's name). His friends somewhat laughed. 2 months ago a girl that he doesn't know asked about me. He said, Why do so many people think that I like her? All we did was a project together. She's overreacting.

2 weeks ago I told him that I like him. He looked at his phone then back at me. He had a half smile and said "sure alright, bye" and left.

He texted me on the same day, "Hey sorry about walking off earlier, I'm pretty shy." I asked "why are you shy?" I also texted "Tbh I thought that you wanted to ignore me lol". He didn't text back. Days later I sent him a long text of the real reason why I wanted to tell him which was that "I had a feeling your friends knew. I'm sorry that I like you and that I asked why you're shy". I told him that I thought he was embarrassed and it was my fault. I also said if there's anything you want to admit to me, I'm here. He STILL didn't text back.