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okay, so i find us making a lot of eye contact, and we laugh a lot.. he's really nice to me and one time i got out of the car and little piece of my underwear line was visible when someone made a comment about it he laughed and said he didn't mind... also his dad had said "woah who is she and he said oh, thats (my name) , thats my buddies girl. over all i just get these different vibes from him. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years we have been through a good bit together but i dont feel the same and i am over the constant arguing. im not happy. and everytime i see his friend i am happy, and i see so many good qualities in him and i wanna be with him in the worst way. but the other issue here, when i first got with my boyfriend i hooked his friend up with a friend of mine who i dont talk to anymore and cheats on him and treats him bad. i want to tell him how i feel about him but i dont know how to go about doing it. am i wrong? how do i go about doing this? does it seem like his friend is kinda crushing to or? to be real with myself i have always had a crush on him, when i first moved to this state i seen his friend on social media before i did him and i always wanted to talk to him but was to scared until i got to know him and seen how great he is... good idea or bad idea to tell him about my feelings? should i tell my boyfriend my feelings? what do i do?

So i've recently started dating a guy 5 years older than me..(I'm 18, he's 23) And on the first date he asked me how I want our relationship to progress. He was like; so do u wanna hook up or something? Or are you looking for something more serious? I said I was looking for something serious and he agreed. The second time we're meeting he tells me that we're not in a relationship and that he'd like to.. Well.. Give me oral next time we meet. I declined, but he kept pushing. And in the end he said that if everything is fine with us after one month of dating, we should consider a relationship... But there are just so many things wrong with that for me. First of all, he's moving too fast. With oral, I mean. Secondly he wants to have sex without being in a relationship.. WTF. He also said he won't get serious too fast because certain women have not treated him well in the past. Ugh.! He also said; If U wanna date another guy u can.. Or something like that. I'm confused.. I like him, but he is pushing me a little bit. He also mentioned that we might have zero sexual compatibility and if he doesn't see how a relationship is gonna work if it's not there. That's why he mentioned having sex before the relationship. Help :/