Search Results: abusive men

Traumatising Tinder date. Why was he like this?

Started speaking to a guy on tinder two years back, wasn't that attracted to him but he was funny so continued to talk. Decided to just talk to him as a friend but dated other guys during this period, he would ask me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Young People: what are reasons you would not date someone?

* I don't date men with HS sweethearts. It's a waste of time, the girl never leaves, she knows his friends and family, and you'll always be seen as the sidechick even if you're in a relationship with him because he has...

browniegirl

Xper 2 Age: 26

Relationships

I'm having a baby with an abusive toxic man that I don't really love?

This baby wasn't planned and I can honestly say I've never loved my child's father. We were friends for years before this shitty relationship and before I got pregnant. I just didn't think things would be this way. I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Is online dating messaging impossible now?

Too many women are spammed with messages from guys that are simply unwelcoming and often times abusive. I feel like this really damages the views of men overall and makes it tough to have genuine conversations with women....

ShadeRose

Xper 2 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Ladies how can I get my ex back after breaking her heart?

I said some really ugly things when I got drunk and dont even remember... the more I didn't want to talk about it the more it ate her up... finally she pulled the trigger... I wrote her a letter about 3 weeks after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why are women more likely to become prostitutes than men?

A lot of women seems to really consider prostitution and related to be a reputable and viable job, even though its extremely risky even if you take safety precautions. I browsed around subreddits for sex work and the...

esotericstory

Guru Age: 31

Marriage & Weddings

Housewife in late 50s seeking divorce after 30 years of marriage?

Here it goes. My mom is in her late 50's and spent the last thirty years married to my father and was a housewife per his wishes. He's always been very controlling with her- and she's been unhappy for a long time. What...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is violence against women a big thing?

This is why I feel like equality is a joke. Why not demand a stop to violence and rape for all human life? It's already been proven men suffer more violence and die by violence in general. But society ignores male...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do men become verbally abusive?

My baby daddy is so verbally abusive it has gotten so bad that I can't even have a civilized conversation with him. When I call on the phone him about our kid, his first word is your a stupid bitch or what do you want you...

Sam_Potter456

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Do women actually like men who are proper gentleman?

While growing up I constantly knew and saw and stood up for women in abusive relationships but now I'm in my 20s and still haven't met a girl who actually likes the fact that I'm a proper old fashioned gentleman. Can...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why are white couples more into open relationship? Why are they the worst type of couples?

I mean every weird , unstable and often toxic relationship involves white couples Many white wives prefer open relationship and sleep with other men specifically of another race every toxic , abusive and overall...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Ending a long term friendship?

Me and my best friend have known each other since we were small. As we’ve gotten older I’ve noticed she’s changed personality wise. Way back in Freshman year she started morphing into a completely different person. All...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is this man a bad person?

Justin is 18 years old. When he was in 5th grade he used to be close friends with Kai but due to peer pressure Justin became physically and verbally abusive to a deaf kid named Kai. Kai tried to kill himself because he...

Dog20

Xper 6 Age: 26

Justin is 18 years old. When he was in 5th grade he used to be close friends with Kai but due to peer pressure Justin became physically and verbally abusive to a deaf kid named Kai.

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Guy's Behavior

Help what would you do in my situation?

i have a boyfriend who i have been with for a year and 6 months and the whole reationship we have dealt with his physically abusive and emotionally abusive gran who controlls him and talks shit about me to him and tries...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Are most black men abusive?

I've only met one black man that never hit his wife nor when they were dating either. Otherwise I keep hearing that they can be more abusive than men of other ethnicities. Some Latinos can be abusive too but not as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How do I deal with a woman who has trauma from a previous relationship?

We dated for 5 months 3 years ago, and it didn't work out because she had a miscarriage and shut me out because she was so frightened and scared. She never told me. She just shut me out of her life. I tried to talk to her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to get over an abusive relationship?

My abusive relationship ended three months ago but I still can't help but to blame this person and myself for what happened. He was physically and emotional abusive. In our 9 month relationship, I paid for almost...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why is it that it seems like men are always the bad guys?

i know that not all men are bad and i’m not sexist but i was just wondering why the majority of psychopaths have to be men, the majority of cheaters, or physically abusive people, why are most rape cases done by men, as...

Justbeyouandbehappy_

Xper 6 Age: 24

Society & Politics

Do you believe that men have the right to hit women in self defense?

So let's me explain if a women start acting aggressively maybe gets to the point of hitting do you think a man should be legally able to fight back. I see a lot of you shouldn't hit any women under any circumstance...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So let's me explain if a women start acting aggressively maybe gets to the point of hitting do you think a man should be legally able to fight back. I see a lot of you shouldn't

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Girl's Behavior

Why do women expect guys to be nice and provide for them, then go after abusive men who don't and complain?

I grew up with an abusive, irresponsible dad, and my mother (who was a pageant queen and very desirable in her youth) neglected ALL the advances from nice guys and decided to spend her life trying to 'train' my dad....

Jaysonava

Explorer Age: 33