Search Results: appearance and problems

Now that I have money women like me

When I was broke living check to check, women didn't like me. Now that I have money and a nice car, they like me. Before that I could look into a woman's eyes and see nothing. I've never had a girlfriend in my life...

Anonymous

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Girl's Behavior

Is it worth it to be nice to people who don't deserve it?

To be honest, I've always lived by the quote "kill them with kindness" just because I think there is no reason to treat somebody horribly, even if they do have a sucky personality. I feel like their personality is THEIR...

GoodVibesAlissa

Xper 3 Age: 31

Men asking for advice to change their personalities

Okay, so, I get it when people are insecure. Maybe you've had a difficult past, family problems, girlfriend problems or confidence issues (obesity, unclear skin or any other physical imperfection). But that's no reason to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Did this guy not like my personality, is that the real problem and not my physical appearance?

I've been on a total of 4 dates in my life all with guys from online and all have rejected me. I keep shifting back between what the hell is wrong with me? Its either personality and the way I look which is a little...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What would you do if your parents chose what you wore when going out?

This is for my brother. He's 14 and decided to go out to the movies with his friends. He wore jeans and a t shirt and a light jacket. The jacket had a tiny paint spill on it, but that was all. The problem was that our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Approching a girl is one thing but how to get a date

Ok so lately I've been trying to be a little open and not so uptight about when dealing with women I seem to like. I've also tried taking it more easy about the whole thing. Because of this I've noticed a lot more women...

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Explorer Age: 44

Break Up & Divorce

Uncomfortable with my naked body in front of my new boyfriend.

I've been seeing a guy for about three weeks now. We've been spending a lot of time together and boy are we ever similar in our actions and how we think. Now he's been sleeping over at my place a lot, and we've been...

sugarjackj

Xper 5 Age: 39

Do you ever feel some stores are not 100% honest with you?

I happen to like this one particular jewelry store I've been going too for several years. This store as a lot of nice things I like only problem is their usually out of my budget. I became friends with one of the owners...

SwissCheeze

Xper 3 Age: 40

I happen to like this one particular jewelry store I've been going too for several years. This store as a lot of nice things I like only problem is their usually out of my budget. I

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How do you deal with people who can't be taken seriously?

How do you deal with friends who keep making jokes out of everything? Now, I absolutely know how to take a joke and how to have fun but several of my friends, especially girls, never get a moment's dose of serious. They...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I respond to her?

There is this girl who I know likes me. We have only met three times in person, hanging out in a mutual group of friends but we text daily. She has asked me if I want to hang out with her sometime this week. The problem I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Girls who don't shave... Anything

I don't shave anything. And I'm certainly not blond, so it's noticeable. Plus, I'm pretty feminine. My aesthetic is usually pretty dresses, funky make-up and dresses, hairy legs and dockers. The sun has been making an...

DivineBrown

Xper 5 Age: 41

Catholic College Art Model Question/Suggestion?

Hi all. I'm an art major at a small private Catholic college. And I am also on the art department advisory committee. Since it's a Catholic college, for many years we were not allowed to use nude models in any of the art...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: Are you intimidated by "emo" girls?

I'm 16 years old and attend a residential preparatory academy, so the typical guy here is an excellent student who dresses in sweater vests and the girls genuinely are really into fashion and wear dresses and have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to avoid attraction towards certain people?

I am a Pakistani girl, but I appear like a white person and/or people usually cannot tell where I am from, because I act really American (although my dark black brown hair can tell it). Anyways I found out that I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girlfriend posting photos of herself on Instagram

Hi, I was hoping I could get some answers from you ladies regarding my situation. I've been seeing this girl for 4 months now, everything is incredible, and we're both crazy about one another, BUT, there's one thing that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

My obsession with my weight is destroying me. Help?

I've always been an overweight girl ,I used to be overweight with like 10(22lbs)-15 kg(33lbs). My ideal weight should be between 52(114.4 lbs/pounds) and 55(121lbs) kg at my height of 162 cm.(I don't know if that means...

Lauren2410

Explorer Age: 29

Why can't I be the one they want? Why aren't I the one they want?

I am a genuinely nice guy (a freshman in college by the way), I love everyone, fear no-one, and I don't have the capacity to hurt anyone or anything. I don't think I'm unattractive in appearance, (okay, I do think I'm...

Nate54

Xper 5 Age: 31