Now that I have money women like me

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When I was broke living check to check, women didn't  like me.  Now that I have money and a nice car, they like me. Before that  I could look into a woman's eyes and see nothing. I've never had a girlfriend in my life ever. But now  I could . I know now that if I were to get a girl I would always have that thought in the back of my head that she's only with me because of my money. I always showed lame unconditional positive attitude towards females in general despite never having any kind of luck with them and I   never just went after one type of girl I've approached every type and shape  out there. Throughout the years I've tried everything  worked on appearance, style, personality,  you name it , but now since I have money and a nice car , it seems like dating will never be a problem it once was.  I've never lacked any ambition when I was broke, living paycheck to paycheck which I supposedly the "reason" why women won't give broke men a chance.  But I've always seen plenty of guys broke without a car or job land women like it was nothing    So I'm  thinking about finally  throwing  in the towel in on women because it seems like  the only way I will have a girl is if I had money which sucks because what happens if I become broke again? Nothing in life is guaranteed People  claim its all about personality and confidence  but its not. I had a friend once that didn't believe that he would ever amount to anything, but he had no problem getting a girl and he's never been dumped because of lack of ambition or confidence or because he was broke.So what should I do? accept the fact that  women are just now interested in me is because I've got money, or "hope" for a miracle?

amy1022 · Accepted Answer

Look, how would they know you were once broke unless you told them or unless it's someone you knew from before? Give the women who don't know your past a chance. It's worth it.  And you don't  have to tell women how much money you have in the bank because that's your business and not theirs.  You seem like you may have tried too much to have women like you. You need to find in yourself things you like about yourself, and admire about yourself.  Once you start gaining some confidence, this will show on your face, it will shine, and women are attracted to that.  Don't worry too much about landing a girlfriend too, because when the right one comes along for you, who likes you for you, you'll know it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"I've always seen plenty of guys broke without a car or job land women like it was nothing"

"I had a friend once that didn't believe that he would ever amount to anything, but he had no problem getting a girl and he's never been dumped because of lack of ambition or confidence or because he was broke."

Obviously these women weren't out for money, so maybe your views are skewed. Could it be that maybe...just maybe you're happier now that you're not living paycheck to paycheck and women pick up on that happiness?

ArabianPwincess197 · Accepted Answer

Yeah because now you have money their attracted to you because 1) you can buy them things 2) they can be financially dependent upon you

MikeK · Accepted Answer

Well, you yourself said your friend lacked monetary funds and was sans ambition... so it's possible not ALL women just want money ;)

I agree women's wants are quite radical and unrealistic, but even my "supposed" misogynstic-self can admit that money isn't the ONLY thing women want ;)

kambo_trick3y · Accepted Answer

Ever saw the movie "Coming to America"? Do that, but to a lesser, American extent.

QueenTiffanyB87 · Answer

Maybe you need to meet girls somewhere else. That way they won't know if you have money or not.

Anonymous · Answer

You're just finding out now that women only like money? Why do you think there are so many single and divorced people today? It's because the economy sucks and women can't have all the royalties that they feel like they're entitled to just for having a vagina.

moviedude714 · Answer

Duh!, what do you think Scarface(Tony Montana) said?

Anonymous · Answer

You're just now realizing that women like money? I wish women would just openly start saying it. But then again, men always want to shame women for everything they do.

blackkid4 · Answer

I recommend you give up on women.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see what the problem is.

Now that I have money women like me

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