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I went on 1 date with this guy that I really like. And on the date he said I'm the only one he's talking to and I was honest and told him he's the only one I'm talking to as well. I heard from many sources he REALLY likes me and all he does is talk about me. However, our first date was 3 weeks ago but we've been texting everyday all day since then. I even met up with him once after the date before my night class. The date went amazing! And he's such a gentleman. But I've been waiting for him to ask me on a second date and he still hasn't... but I understand why he's been really busy working and studying. So have I. But there is a chance for me to get oral from this other guy who is going to another state, and its really tempting. So far I said no to him because of this guy I really like.. but at the same time technically we aren't an item. So would it be cheating if I did do it, when we only went on 1 date?

I have made multiple multiple questions about this situation and I just want to put a final end on getting peoples opinions opinions on it. It will really help me.
- I have known this laid back guy for 1.5 years we met online
- at the beginning things were good, we were flirting/ making sexual jokes (I went along with it)
- I was hesitant to meet him because I thought he wanted sex, I lead him on for awhile when it came to meeting up
- he gave me multiple chances with giving things a try
- we have argued a lot through out
- on our first date, he paid, it was quiet, got to know him a bit, made out with him. After our first date his answers on how it went was vague.
- after our first date shortly after I found out he hooked up with a girl, he told me he thought I wasn't serious.
- he asked me randomly to be his girlfriend in the summer time and we kind of left it.
- we tried to give things a go and then I got cold feet.
- when we weren't talking and i was going out with a guy he messaged me asking how my "bf" was
- we talked a lot about our past and how he told me he wanted to be with me and that he liked me. I told him the same. He told me a couple times he wanted to move on but I wanted him to give me one last chance. Anyways we went on our second date, I paid, got no thank you. We had nothing in common. We did make things official before our second date. After our second date he said it was fun, but he felt nothing.. ( he did told me he was in the mood during our date) He then told me after that we just went on 2 dates, that I was weird etc..