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I talked to this guy for a week before we went out on a date. He told me he was very interested. Kept asking me if I was interested. Kept fishing for compliments from me. Kept asking if I was excited to see him. We have sex the first date and he couldn’t finish. Kept apologizing. Things were different between us after that. Attempted to have sex the next night. Same thing. Took me home. Didn’t say much to me on the way home. Sent me a text the next day saying he wasn’t feeling it.

When you keep someone on social media, in this case Snapchat. You meet them from a dating app (have not met in person due to covid) and in the beginning they seem more interested in talking. Now, they only send messages in response to one of your stories/posts. They have not asked you out but acknowledge when you post something. In the beginning, they would compliment you but now it’s just general convo but not often, only in response to a post

I met someone through tinder a few months ago, we never met in person until Jan. I only met in person in order to buy something from him. I was paranoid because of COVID so it was only to buy it and head home. Prior to that, he would reply to my stories on social media and compliment me here and there. He still replies to my stories but he doesn’t ask questions like before, just strictly commenting on whatever I post. I think it’s just platonic, considering he isn’t flirty or persistent etc

I know most of you will say you dont believe in leagues but we’re going to discuss it anyways. If i’m being 100% honest, if i feel someones out of my league, its likely because i dont see myself working to get to their level. For example, if i got all dolled up and Brad Pitt took me on a date, I’d end it with “I had a great time but you're so out of my league.” I say that because 99% of the time, I’m going to be dressed in sweats and walking around with that “i just woke up” bed hair 😂 I’m not willing to make the efforts to get on his level in the long run, so I may as well say he’s out of my league, send him on his way, and save him from my lack of efforts since I’m not willing to change. Now lets say, he likes me for the tomboy i am. Its happened before. But i dont fully trust they’ll stay happy. I liked this guy Robbie in college. He was 9/10 gorgeous. Dude looked like a model but he liked plain jane ole ME. However, I overheard comments he made to other guys about how cute he found the girls covered in makeup and wearing dresses. It was clear that my lack of efforts to appear more feminine would mean that I’d never truly be enough for him. So why waste my time if i refuse to be that girly girl that he would find MORE attractive in the long run. So i quit pursuing him 🤷‍♀️ I had an ex who told me “youre too much” and literally followed up with the fact that he didn't want to get a job and do his part in the relationship. He said he wanted to let his parents take care of him as long as possible so that he could sit around and play games all day. See he wanted me to stay but that warning was a way to save me from himself. I say take it with a grain of salt and see the statement as a compliment rather than just someone being insecure.
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