So this is something I hear all the time. And I’m starting to believe it may be true, especially in my love life. Or I will say lack of. It makes me wonder if I’m not in that category. Hear me out, I’ve been single because I fail to attract someone that I like and that likes me back. With dating, I always attract men I don’t find good looking or men that are just too short for my preference. I want a tall guy and only shorter guys, around an inch taller than me or my same height, show interest. It sucks because the short guys are cute but just too short for me. People have said that I’m too picky and I will likely end up alone if I choose to hold out for my ideal guy. I’m starting to believe that is the truth for me, considering I’m in my mid twenties and never been in a long term relationship. I was skinnier once upon a time and 10 lbs lighter than what I am now. It’s only about 10 lbs but I think I look bigger versus what the scale says. And what happens? Skinnier versus being heavier, my love life has not changed. People have told me I’m attractive and I’ve had a range of compliments been given to me. Yet, it never fails, I never get attention from the cute guy or average guys in general. Yet, almost every woman I’ve met gets noticed by men. Better yet, men they’d actually want to date. These men are considering dating these women I’ve previously called friends, some are even relatives and just info I’ve gathered from women I previously met. So if guys have previously told me I’m a catch and “how are you still single?” etc...then they’re just lying to get in my pants & I’m really not a catch. I hate to sound self deprecating but clearly I’m not a catch if I’m always single. If I was this “catch”, I’d be taken along with all the other “good ones”. How often do you see a good looking man or woman single? And if they are, it’s by choice. In my case, I can’t find what I’m looking for and what that other guy wants either. I’m sulking pre-Valentine’s day, shocker huh?
Does anyone else agree with this? If you’re really a catch, you would clearly not have a hard time finding a date?